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小王子>那句名言

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竟然是一条佛学公式

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全世界两亿人都读过这本书

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几乎每个人都能背出那句话

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重要的东西

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用眼睛是看不见的

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但你有没有想过

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这句话到底在说什么

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不是鸡汤

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不是安慰

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它是一个关于人类认知结构的精确描述

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如果你用佛学的坐标系去重新定位这句话

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你会发现

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1943年一个法国飞行员写在童话里的这个秘密

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佛陀在两千五百年前

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早就用一套完整的认知模型说透了

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哈喽

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大家好

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我是王利杰

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今天咱们来拆一本看起来最简单

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实际上可能是最深的书

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圣埃克苏佩里的<小王子>

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先说一个可能让你意外的事实

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这本书被翻译成了几百种语言

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全球累计销量超过两亿册

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是人类历史上被读得最多的书之一

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但你注意到没有

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读这本书的体验特别奇怪

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小时候读

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你觉得它是一个童话

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长大后再读

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你隐约觉得里面藏着什么东西

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但说不清楚

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再读第三遍第四遍

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你开始觉得这本书在拆你自己

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为什么

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因为<小王子>不是在讲一个故事

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它是在用童话的语言

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描述人类意识从清明坠入迷雾

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又从迷雾中找到回路的完整过程

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而这个过程

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在唯识学里有一个极其精密的模型

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咱们从头说起

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小王子住在一颗叫B612的小行星上

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那颗星球小到什么程度呢

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你搬一把椅子

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转个身

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就能看到日落

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星球上只有三样东西

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一朵玫瑰

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三座火山

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还有几棵需要定期拔掉的猴面包树

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这个设定本身就极有深意

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在唯识学里

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人类意识有三种看世界的方式

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叫做三自性

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第一种叫圆成实性

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就是事物本来的样子

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不加标签、不附带情绪的纯粹真相

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第二种叫依他起性

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就是事物因为各种条件相互依赖而呈现出来的样子

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第三种叫遍计所执性

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就是你的意识在事物上面强行贴标签、编故事、加戏

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B612星球

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就是一个接近圆成实的世界

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没有多余的概念

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没有比较

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没有竞争

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小王子和他的玫瑰之间的关系

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纯粹得像水一样

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他浇水

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她开花

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仅此而已

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但问题是

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小王子不满足

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他觉得玫瑰太矫情了

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她老是咳嗽、老是要人照顾、老是说风凉话

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小王子受不了了

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他决定离开

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这是整本书最关键的转折

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也是唯识学里最核心的命题之一

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小王子离开B612

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不是因为玫瑰不好

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而是因为他开始在玫瑰身上贴标签了

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矫情

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麻烦

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不够好

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这些标签就是遍计所执

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他不再直接看见那朵花了

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他开始透过标签看那朵花

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但这里有一个圣埃克苏佩里埋得最深的伏笔

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在小王子离开的那天早上

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玫瑰对他说了一句话

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她说

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我以前真傻

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请你原谅我

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愿你幸福

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她终于不再矫情了

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她不再要求他挡风

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不再假装咳嗽

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为什么

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因为她一直都爱他

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只是她不知道怎么表达

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她用要求、用抱怨、用虚张声势来掩饰自己的脆弱

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用唯识学来看

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玫瑰的矫情本身也是遍计所执

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她给自己贴了一个标签

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叫做需要被保护的公主

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当小王子真的要走了

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这个标签碎了

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她反而第一次看见了自己真正的心

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两个人之间最深的悲剧是什么

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不是不爱

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而是两颗心明明在一起

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却各自被自己的标签挡住了

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谁也看不见对方真正的样子

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从那一刻起

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小王子从圆成实的状态

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掉进了遍计所执的迷雾

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然后他开始旅行

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他先后到了六颗星球

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第一颗上住着一个国王

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整颗星球只有他一个人

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但他坚持要统治一切

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连日落都要命令

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第二颗上住着一个爱慕虚荣的人

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他唯一的功能就是期待别人鼓掌

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第三颗上住着一个酒鬼

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他喝酒是为了忘记自己喝酒这件事

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一个完美的死循环

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第四颗上住着一个商人

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他在数星星

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声称自己拥有它们

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每天忙着把数字写在纸条上锁进抽屉

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第五颗上住着一个点灯人

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他忠实地执行一条早已不适用的命令

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每分钟点一次灯再灭一次

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第六颗上住着一个地理学家

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他记录所有山川河流

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因为他说他太重要了不能出门

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你发现没有

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这六个人其实是同一种病的六种症状

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用佛学的话说

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这是末那识的六种伪装

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末那识是唯识学里的第七识

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它只干一件事

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就是不停地抓

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不停地建构一个我

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然后拼命维护这个我

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国王抓权力

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虚荣者抓认同

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酒鬼抓遗忘

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商人抓占有

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点灯人抓规则

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地理学家抓概念

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六种抓法

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同一个根

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那个根就是

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我需要通过拥有什么、控制什么、被谁认可

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来证明我存在

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你再注意一个细节

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每颗星球上只住一个人

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这不是随便写的

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每一种执着

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都会把你关进一座只有你自己的孤岛

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执着越深

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越孤独

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你想想身边那些控制欲特别强的人

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那些特别在意别人评价的人

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那些沉迷于某种习惯无法自拔的人

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他们是不是都活在一颗只有自己的星球上

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再想想你自己

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你刷手机停不下来的时候

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你反复查看点赞数的时候

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你拼命攒钱却不敢花的时候

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你是不是也坐在某颗小行星上

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以为自己在做一件很重要的事

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但其实只是在维护那个我的幻觉

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圣埃克苏佩里写这本书是1943年

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那时候还没有智能手机

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没有社交媒体

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但他精确地预言了八十年后全人类的生存状态

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每个人都在一颗小行星上忙碌

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每个人都以为自己很重要

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每个人都很孤独

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然后小王子来到了第七颗星球

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地球

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地球上他遇到了一片玫瑰花园

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五千朵玫瑰

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和他的那朵一模一样

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他哭了

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他一直以为自己那朵玫瑰是宇宙里独一无二的

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结果发现到处都是

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他趴在草丛里哭着说

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我以为我很富有

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拥有一朵举世无双的花

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结果她只不过是一朵普通的玫瑰

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加上三座不到膝盖高的火山

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这并不能使我成为一个了不起的王子

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这是全书最痛的一刀

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也是修行路上必须经历的一刀

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你以为独一无二的东西

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其实满世界都是

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你赋予它的那个独一无二

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是你自己贴上去的标签

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不是它自带的属性

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在唯识学里

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这叫遍计所执的第一次破裂

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你终于看见了

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标签只是标签

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不是事物本身

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这一刀非常疼

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但它是醒过来的第一步

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接下来

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狐狸出现了

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狐狸对小王子说了一段改变整本书走向的话

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大意是这样的

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对我来说

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你不过是一个小男孩

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和千千万万个小男孩没有区别

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我不需要你

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你也不需要我

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对你来说

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我也不过是一只狐狸

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和千千万万只狐狸没有区别

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但是

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如果你驯服了我

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我们就彼此需要了

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你对我来说就是世界上唯一的

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我对你来说也是世界上唯一的

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这段话极其关键

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驯服这个词

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原文的意思是通过耐心的陪伴和持续的付出

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和另一个生命之间建立起只属于你们两个的联系

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不是占有

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不是控制

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而是一种双向的、需要时间来编织的纽带

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用佛学来翻译

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驯服就是种因

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狐狸还教了小王子一件很重要的事

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他说

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驯服是需要仪式的

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你每天最好在同一个时间来

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比如你下午四点来

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那从三点开始我就会感到幸福

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时间越接近

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我就越幸福

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到了四点

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我已经坐立不安了

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这就是仪式的价值

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这段话在修行里有一个非常精准的对应

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叫做日课

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每天固定的时间打坐

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固定的时间观照

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不是因为这个时间有什么魔力

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而是因为重复本身就在种因

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每一次重复都在加深那道因缘的沟槽

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时间久了

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你的意识会自动在那个时刻苏醒

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就像狐狸三点钟就开始幸福一样

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驯服不是一个瞬间的决定

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是一个持续的、需要耐心的过程

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种子不会一天就长成树

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在因缘建立之前

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你和任何一朵玫瑰之间都是平等的

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她确实和其他五千朵没有区别

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这是缘起性空的原理

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万法本来没有高低贵贱之分

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但因缘一旦建立

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情况就不同了

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你给她浇过水

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你给她挡过风

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你听过她的抱怨

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你为她失过眠

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这些看不见的投入

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在你和她之间编织出了一张独一无二的网

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从这个角度再看那五千朵玫瑰

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你就全懂了

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它们确实和你的那朵长得一样

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但你的那朵之所以不同

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不是因为她本身有什么特殊属性

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而是因为你和她之间有了因缘

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这种特殊性不在事物本身

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在关系里

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这就是唯识学里依他起性的精确定义

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事物呈现出来的面貌

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取决于它所依赖的那些条件和关系

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一朵玫瑰的本性是空的

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但因缘赋予了它对你而言不可替代的意义

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你可能会问

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那这个特殊性是真的还是假的

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答案是

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它既不是真的也不是假的

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它是因缘所生的

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因缘在

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它就在

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因缘灭

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它就灭

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但这不意味着它不重要

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恰恰相反

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正因为它是因缘所生的

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所以它比你以为的那种天然独一无二更珍贵

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天然的东西你不需要维护

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因缘生的东西你需要浇灌

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你停止浇水的那一天

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它就开始枯萎

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这不是无常带来的悲伤

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这是无常赋予的紧迫感

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正因为会变

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所以此刻才无比珍贵

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然后狐狸说出了那个秘密

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只有用心才能看清楚

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重要的东西

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用眼睛是看不见的

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这句话不是心灵鸡汤

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它是一个关于人类感知系统的结构性判断

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加州大学的认知科学家霍夫曼提出过一个理论

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叫做感知界面理论

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他用数学模型和计算机模拟证明了一件反直觉的事实

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自然选择不会让我们的感官去感知真相

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我们的眼睛、耳朵、鼻子

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进化出来不是为了让你看见事物本来的样子

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而是为了让你活下去

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他打了一个比方

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你看电脑桌面上有一个蓝色的文件夹图标

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那个图标是蓝色的、方形的、在屏幕右下角

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但真实的文件不是蓝色的

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不是方形的

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也不在什么右下角

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图标只是一个操作界面

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它帮助你高效地管理信息

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但它不告诉你底层的电压和晶体管到底长什么样

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你的感官给你的

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就是这种图标

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你看到的红色不是光波本身

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你闻到的花香不是分子本身

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你感知到的整个世界

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都是进化帮你定制的一套操作界面

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佛学两千五百年前就在说同样的事情

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眼耳鼻舌身意

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对应色声香味触法

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这六组配对就是你的感知界面

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而圆成实

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也就是事物的真实本性

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从来不在这层界面上显示

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你在界面上看到的一切

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都是加工过的、简化过的

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为了帮你生存而优化过的信号

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这一点我们频道之前专门做过一期

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把现代神经科学的感知系统和佛学的六根

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六尘放在一起对照

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结论是两套语言描述的其实是同一个过程

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感兴趣的朋友可以翻回去看

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这里就不展开了

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所以小王子用眼睛看五千朵玫瑰

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看到的是一样的

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但用心去看

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只有一朵是他的

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因为眼睛只能显示界面上的图标

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而心能触碰到图标背后那些看不见的因缘

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圣埃克苏佩里还写了一句话

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你为你的玫瑰花费的时间

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使得你的玫瑰变得如此重要

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这句话用唯识学翻译过来就是

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你在一段因缘上投入的觉知和注意力

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决定了这段因缘在你的意识里的权重

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不是玫瑰变重要了

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是你和玫瑰之间的因缘密度变高了

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不是世界本身有高低贵贱之分

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而是你的心在哪里停留

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在哪里投入

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在哪里付出过真实的注意力

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那里就会为你呈现出一个不同的世界

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这个道理

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和佛陀说的一切唯心造

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指向的是同一个方向

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书里还有一句容易被忽略的话

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小王子和飞行员在沙漠里走了很久

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终于找到了一口井

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小王子说

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沙漠之所以美丽

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是因为在它的某个角落藏着一口井

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你想想这句话

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沙漠表面看上去什么都没有

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黄沙一片

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但你知道某个地方有水

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你知道走下去就能找到

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这个看不见的确定性

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让整片沙漠都变了样子

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这和修行是一回事

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你的生活表面上可能很平淡

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甚至很荒凉

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但如果你知道在某个深处藏着一口井

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藏着一个你还没有完全看见的真相

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那你走在日常里的每一步

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感受都不一样了

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这就是信

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不是迷信

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不是盲从

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而是你在还没看见井水之前

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愿意相信沙漠深处有水

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然后一步一步走过去

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最后聊一个很多人忽略的结尾

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小王子决定回到B612

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但他的身体太重了

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带不到那么远的地方

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于是他让毒蛇咬了自己

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身体倒下了

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像一棵树一样

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慢慢地

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没有声音地倒下

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第二天飞行员回去找

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沙地上连身体都不见了

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如果你用佛学的框架来看

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这不是一个死亡叙事

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这是意识回归的隐喻

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色身

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就是最后一层界面

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当所有界面都放下了

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标签放下了

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执着放下了

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意识不是消失了

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而是回到了那个不需要任何界面就能存在的状态

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身体没有留下

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因为它只是一层壳

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真正的小王子从来都不在壳里

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飞行员最后抬头看天上的星星

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他说

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当你在夜晚仰望星空的时候

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因为小王子住在其中某一颗上面

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因为他在那颗星星上笑着

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那么对你来说

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就好像所有的星星都在笑

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同样的星空

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建立了因缘的人看见的和没有建立因缘的人看见的

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完全不一样

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星星还是那些星星

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但你的心里有了一个人

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整片星空的界面就被重新写了一遍

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圣埃克苏佩里写这本书的时候

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正在二战中执行飞行任务

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写完一年之后

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1944年7月

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他驾驶侦察机从科西嘉岛起飞

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再也没有回来

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他消失了将近六十年

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飞机残骸才在马赛附近的地中海底被找到

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一个在真实的死亡阴影下写作的人

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他留下的那句秘密

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不是从书本上抄来的

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那是他用整个生命验证过的东西

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他自己就是那个飞行员

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他自己也有一朵玫瑰

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他的妻子康苏艾洛

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他们的关系充满了争吵、误解和分离

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和小王子跟他的玫瑰一模一样

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他在写小王子的时候

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其实是在写自己

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他在用童话的方式

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向他爱过却没能好好爱的人道歉

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重要的东西用眼睛看不见

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这不是一句感叹

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这是一条关于认知结构的定律

465
00:17:14,664 --> 00:17:16,794
你的眼睛给你的是界面

466
00:17:16,865 --> 00:17:18,834
你的心给你的是因缘

467
00:17:19,184 --> 00:17:20,173
界面可以复制

468
00:17:20,464 --> 00:17:21,874
因缘不能复制

469
00:17:22,144 --> 00:17:24,864
五千朵玫瑰在界面上一模一样

470
00:17:24,865 --> 00:17:25,903
但在因缘里

471
00:17:25,904 --> 00:17:27,594
只有一朵是你的

472
00:17:27,785 --> 00:17:31,634
你不需要读完六百卷般若经才能理解这个道理

473
00:17:31,664 --> 00:17:33,753
你只需要像小王子一样

474
00:17:33,785 --> 00:17:36,473
认认真真给一朵花浇过水

475
00:17:36,904 --> 00:17:38,334
你的那朵玫瑰是什么

476
00:17:38,825 --> 00:17:39,453
是一个人

477
00:17:39,944 --> 00:17:40,993
一份事业

478
00:17:41,025 --> 00:17:43,413
还是你生命中某个不可复制的瞬间

479
00:17:44,025 --> 00:17:44,854
如果你愿意

480
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在评论区告诉我

481
00:17:46,825 --> 00:17:47,574
我是王利杰

482
00:17:47,944 --> 00:17:48,733
我们下期见