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王阳明悟道篇是假的

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为什么比真的还戳心

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你有没有在朋友圈 短视频

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或者某个中年人的微信签名里

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见过这样一段话 躲天意

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避因果

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诸般枷锁困真我

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顺天意

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成因果

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今日方知我是我

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听起来是不是特别有感觉

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底下往往还配着一个标题

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叫 王阳明心学 悟道篇

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我先给你说一个结论

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你可能要愣三秒

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这段话

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王阳明一个字都没写过

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哈喽

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大家好

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我是王利杰

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这段被冠以王阳明心学 悟道篇 的文字

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其实是一篇彻头彻尾的伪作

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它不在 传习录 里

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不在 大学问 里

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也不在王阳明任何一封家书或者奏折里

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它是现代人拼凑的

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里面夹杂着佛教的因果

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道教的无为

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再撒一点心学的致良知当调味料

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最后挂上王阳明这个响亮的招牌

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就端上桌了

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但是

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注意我要说一个更有意思的问题

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我今天想跟你聊的

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不是这是假的所以不要信

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而是一个更深的问题

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为什么一篇假冒的文字

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能在中文互联网广泛流传

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为什么我们宁愿相信它是王阳明写的

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你想过没有

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一个人看到这段话

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第一反应是转发 是点赞

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是说得太好了

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几乎没人会去查一下王阳明到底写过这个吗

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这个不去查的动作

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本身就是一个巨大的信号

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它说明什么

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说明这段话击中了一个东西

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击中了我们内心某个空缺

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那个空缺如此强烈

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以至于我们根本不在乎它的作者到底是谁

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我们只需要它是王阳明就够了

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这就是我今天想带你看的第一件事

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人为什么需要被这种伪作欺骗

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我先问你一个问题

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如果我告诉你

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躲天意避因果

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诸般枷锁困真我这句话

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是某个叫张三的网友在贴吧里的原创

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你还会转发吗

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你还会觉得它有力量吗

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大概率不会

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但是如果我告诉你

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这是王阳明在龙场悟道之后写的

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哦

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那味道就完全不一样了

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你会觉得每一个字都有千斤重

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每一个字都凝结着

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五百年前那个被贬到贵州瘴气之地

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在石棺里彻夜顿悟的心学宗师的全部血泪

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你看

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同样一段文字

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换一个署名

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在你心里的重量天差地别

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这就是第一个认知陷阱

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我们根本不是在读内容

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我们是在读权威

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心理学上管这个叫权威偏误

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我们大脑为了节省算力

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会默认一个逻辑

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伟大的人说的话

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一定是对的

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反过来

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听起来很对的话

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一定是伟大的人说的

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这两个方向都成立

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所以当你看到一段说得很有道理的话

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你的大脑会自动给它找一个配得上的作者

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王阳明 老子 苏格拉底 爱因斯坦 鲁迅

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这些名字就是道理的提款机

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什么道理只要挂在他们名下

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你就敢取 就敢用 就敢转

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中文互联网上有一个有意思的现象

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挂着鲁迅说过

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爱因斯坦说过的句子

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相当一部分两位先生本人压根没说过

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但这些被伪造的引用还是能传得到处都是

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恰恰说明了一件事

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我们对内容的需求

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远远大于我们对真相的需求

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这一点放到今天的算法时代

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被进一步放大

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算法不在乎一句话是不是真的

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算法只在乎你有没有点赞

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有没有停留 有没有转发

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所以一段挂着王阳明名号的鸡汤

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会在三天之内被推到几百万人眼前

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而一篇严肃的考据文章

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告诉你这是伪作

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可能连一千个阅读都不到

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这不是阴谋

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这是数学

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流量奖励的从来不是真相

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是共鸣

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而共鸣

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比真相便宜得多

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好

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这是第一层

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我们先把这层放下

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进入第二层

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第二层我要问的问题是

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既然这篇文字是伪作

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那我们是不是就该把它全盘否定

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不对

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这就是很多人在识破伪作之后会犯的第二个错误

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把孩子和洗澡水一起泼掉

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我刚才花了很大力气告诉你这是伪作

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但接下来我要跟你说一句可能颠覆你的话

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这篇伪作里

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有几句话

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是真正有穿透力的

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不因为它是王阳明说的才有力量

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而是因为它本身说中了某种真相

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你记不记得

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金刚经 里讲过一句话

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凡所有相

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皆是虚妄

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佛教讲依法不依人

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意思是

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真理不因为是谁说的而成立

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真理因为它是真理而成立

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一句话是不是对的

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跟说它的人是王阳明 是张三

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还是 AI

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没有关系

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所以我们现在把王阳明这个标签撕下来

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把这段文字还原成一段匿名文字

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我们来看看里面哪些东西

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是真正值得你停下来琢磨的

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我挑三句跟你拆

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第一句

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穷算命运富烧香

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颠颠倒倒问阴阳

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若是做好份内事

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何须鬼神赐良方

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这句话看着像一句劝世良言

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其实它背后藏着一个非常锋利的观察

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顺便说一句

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这句话原本是民间流传的俗语

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跟王阳明没有任何关系

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被拼到 悟道篇 里

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又是一次借壳上市

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你有没有发现一个现象

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越是过得不如意的人

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越热衷于算命

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越是已经很有钱的人

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越热衷于烧香

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一个求未来

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一个求保现在

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但无论是穷的那个

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还是富的那个

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本质上都在干同一件事

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把自己命运的掌控权

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交给一个外部的力量

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穷的人觉得自己今天混成这样

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一定是八字不好

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犯了太岁 流年不利

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所以他要去算

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算出一个解释

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算出一条退路

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富的人觉得自己能有今天

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不全是自己的本事

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一定有某个神明在罩着

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所以他要去烧

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烧得越贵 越大 越早

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越安心

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这两种人看起来一个在山脚

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一个在山顶

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其实他们站在同一个地方

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他们都不敢相信

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自己的命运

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是自己决定的

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这就是那句做好份内事

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何须鬼神赐良方要说的

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你把今天该做的事情做好

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把该尽的责任尽到

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把该守的规矩守住 命运的八成

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就已经在你手里了

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剩下那两成不可控的

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烧香也不会多给你

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算命也不会少给你

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这个道理

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王阳明没说过吗

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王阳明其实说过类似意思的话

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王阳明讲知行合一

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你知道什么是对的

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你就去做

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不要一边求神拜佛

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一边违心行事

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那叫自欺欺人

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所以即便这段话不是王阳明写的

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它的精神内核

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跟心学的底子是对得上的

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这也是为什么这段伪作能骗过这么多人

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它虽然不是王阳明写的

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但它确实借了心学的魂

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好

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这是第一句

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我们看第二句

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第二句更狠

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十人烧香九为财

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又有几炷真香来

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神明不缺三炷香

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善心善念财自来

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这句话我读第一遍的时候

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笑出声了

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你去任何一个香火旺的寺庙看一看

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跪在蒲团上的人

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嘴里念念有词

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你如果能听见他们心里在想什么

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你会发现

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十个人里

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九个是在跟神明做一笔交易

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菩萨保佑我今年生意兴隆

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回头我给您重塑金身

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佛祖保佑我孩子考上清华

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我给您捐一万块功德

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财神爷让我这一单成了

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我天天给您上三炷香

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你看

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这哪是信仰

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这是招商引资

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这是一场跨越凡界和神界的商业谈判

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烧香是定金

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还愿是尾款

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神明是供应商

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信徒是甲方

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甲方还特别精明

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你得先给我办事

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我再给你钱

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但你仔细想想

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如果神明真的是神明

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祂会缺你这三炷香吗

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祂会因为你多塞了一个红包

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就给你改命吗

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如果祂会

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那祂就不是神

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祂是贪官

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真正的神

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如果真的存在的话

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只看一件事

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你这个人

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本性是善的

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还是恶的

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你平时对人怎么样

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你对弱者怎么样

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你面对诱惑的时候守不守得住底线

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这些才是祂看的东西

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你的人品余额

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决定了你能收到多少命运的派发

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这句话我说得比较直白

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但这就是神明不缺三炷香

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善心善念财自来的真正意思

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你不要以为你烧的那炷香是贿赂

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你每天怎么对身边的人

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怎么做生意 怎么做事

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那才是你烧给天地的香

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那炷香

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天天在烧

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从不停歇

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它记录的是你这个人真正的样子

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所以 易经 里讲

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积善之家必有余庆

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积不善之家必有余殃

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佛教讲因果不虚

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科学讲

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系统性的行为模式会产生系统性的结果

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你看

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东方 西方 科学 宗教

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绕来绕去讲的是同一件事

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你的行为模式

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就是你的命运模式

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好

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第二句说完

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我们看最后一句

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也是这篇伪作里我觉得最有力量的一句

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都是黄泉预约客

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何苦为难每一天

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这句话我第一次读到的时候

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愣了很久

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你细品

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我们每一个人

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不管你今天几岁

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不管你身家多少

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不管你过得好还是过得不好

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我们每一个人

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都是黄泉的预约客

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这个预约不是比喻

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这是事实

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你从出生那一刻起

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你的死亡日期就已经在时间的某一页上写好了

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只是你不知道是哪一页

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你每天活着的每一分钟

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都是在往那一页走

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你今天比昨天

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离那一页近了一天

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这话听起来有点沉重对吧

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但是你把它反过来想

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如果终点是确定的

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那什么是最大的浪费

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最大的浪费

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是在路上为难自己

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为难别人

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为难每一天

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你今天跟同事吵了一架

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因为他抢了你的功劳

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你晚上睡不着

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辗转反侧

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血压升高

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气了三天

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但你想一想

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三十年后你躺在病床上

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你会记得这件事吗

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三十年后你会因为今天没跟他吵赢而遗憾吗

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不会的

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三十年后你回头看今天

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你唯一会遗憾的是

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我为什么要把今天这宝贵的一天

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浪费在这么小的一件事上

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这就是都是黄泉预约客

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何苦为难每一天的真正分量

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你也可以做一个更小的实验

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你今天晚上躺在床上

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回想一下今天让你最不爽的那件事

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可能是地铁上有人挤了你一下

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可能是孩子不写作业

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可能是你想说的一句话被领导当众否决

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然后你问自己一个问题

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再过一周

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我还会记得这件事吗

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再过一年呢

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再过十年呢

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百分之九十的事情

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连一周都活不过去

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你今天为它流过的眼泪

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生过的气 咬过的牙

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七天后

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连影子都不会留下

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可你今天

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就是为了这种东西

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把自己最珍贵的一天搞得乌烟瘴气

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这句话为什么有力量

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因为它用死亡这把最锋利的刀

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一刀切断了我们日常所有的小纠结

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小焦虑 小执念

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它把你从琐碎里拎出来

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让你从黄泉那个终点

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回头看此刻 你会看到

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你今天所有的烦恼

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百分之九十九都不值得

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斯多葛学派有一个词

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叫 Memento Mori

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意思是记住你会死

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流传一种说法

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罗马将军打了胜仗

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凯旋游行的时候

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会有一个人站在他身后

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不停地提醒他

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你也会死

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你也会死

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你也会死

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这个画面是不是史实有争议

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但作为一个修心的方法

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它的逻辑是清晰的

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人在高光时刻最容易失控

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最容易膨胀

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最容易忘记自己是谁

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死亡的提醒

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能让他回到地面

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所以

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都是黄泉预约客

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何苦为难每一天

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这句话不是消极

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这是最深的积极

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它是让你在每一个当下

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都能站到终点回望

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然后做出不让自己后悔的选择

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好

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三句话讲完了

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现在我们回到开头那个问题

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为什么一篇伪作能流传这么广

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到这里你应该能明白了

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因为它虽然是拼凑的

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但它拼凑得恰到好处

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它把中国人内心最深处的几个精神需求

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一次性打包给了你

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第一

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对权威的需求

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所以要挂王阳明的名

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第二

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对解脱的需求

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所以要讲放下执念

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第三

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对反讽的需求

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所以要讽刺烧香求财的虚伪

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第四

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对终极意义的需求

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所以要搬出黄泉预约客的生死观

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这篇伪作

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其实是一个针对当代中国人精神痛点的精准定制产品

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它之所以传播这么广

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不是因为它是王阳明写的

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而是因为它击中了一个庞大人群的共同困境

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一群在物质和精神之间撕裂

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在信仰和不信之间摇摆

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在追求和放下之间内耗的人

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所以

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伪作的流行

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本身就是一份社会心理调查报告

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但是 注意

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我要说最后一层了

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也是今天最重要的一层

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一篇能击中你的伪作

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并不能让你真正改变

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你可能读完这段文字

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感动得一塌糊涂

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转发给三个朋友

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给自己的微信签名换了一句

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都是黄泉预约客

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然后呢

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然后第二天

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你还是会为了同事那句话失眠

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还是会为了一万块钱纠结半天

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还是会在朋友圈看到别人晒豪车的时候酸一下

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还是会在烧香的时候心里默默跟菩萨谈条件

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为什么

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因为读过

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不等于知道

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知道

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不等于做到

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做到

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不等于成为

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王阳明真正的心学

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讲的不是这些漂亮话

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王阳明讲知行合一的时候

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他的意思是

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你如果真的知道一件事

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你已经在做了

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你如果没在做

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就证明你根本没真正知道

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你今天看完这个视频

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觉得都是黄泉预约客

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何苦为难每一天说得真好

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如果这就是你的全部反应

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那你根本没知道这句话

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你只是听说了这句话

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真正的知道是什么样子

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真正的知道是

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明天早上同事又说了一句让你不爽的话

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你脑子里那个瞬间会冒出一个声音

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我是黄泉预约客

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不值得

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然后你真的就放下了

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不是强迫自己放下

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不是用理性压制情绪

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而是那句话已经长到你的骨头里

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变成你条件反射的一部分

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这才叫知行合一

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这才是心学

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你可以这样理解

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一句话进到你身体里

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会经过四道关

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第一道关

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叫看见

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你眼睛扫过它

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知道这世界上有这么一句话

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第二道关

488
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叫认同

489
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你点头

490
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觉得说得对

491
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第三道关

492
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叫记住

493
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你能在饭桌上

494
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在朋友圈把它复述一遍

495
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第四道关

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才叫真的拥有

497
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是这句话在你下次发火的那一刹那

498
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自动跳出来

499
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按住了你的心跳

500
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前三道关都不算数

501
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只有第四道关过了

502
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你才真正得到了它

503
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而这个转变

504
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不是靠读一篇伪作能完成的

505
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它需要你在接下来的生活里

506
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一次又一次地

507
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在具体的情境里去实践

508
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每一次愤怒的时候想起它

509
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每一次焦虑的时候想起它

510
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每一次贪婪的时候想起它

511
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一百次 一千次之后

512
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它才会真正变成你

513
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这才是阳明心学真正可怕的地方

514
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也是所有伪作最终会失败的地方

515
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伪作可以给你情绪

516
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但给不了你修行

517
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好

518
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讲到这里

519
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我想听听你的想法

520
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你有没有在朋友圈见过这种挂名伪作

521
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你当时信了吗

522
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你现在回头看

523
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你觉得那些击中过你的所谓名人名言

524
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最后真的改变了你什么吗

525
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还是说

526
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它们只是在你心里炸了一下烟花

527
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然后你就回到原来的生活轨道上了

528
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欢迎在评论区聊聊你的体会

529
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我是王利杰

530
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