1 00:00:00,341 --> 00:00:01,657 金刚经的最后一刀 2 00:00:01,941 --> 00:00:03,478 砍向佛法自己 3 00:00:03,900 --> 00:00:06,158 上一期我们聊了一个很多人的误区 4 00:00:06,301 --> 00:00:09,500 觉醒之后是不是就变成了冷冰冰的木头人 5 00:00:09,500 --> 00:00:11,038 再也没有七情六欲 6 00:00:11,260 --> 00:00:14,718 我把觉知和情绪的关系拆成了五个层次 7 00:00:14,941 --> 00:00:16,658 从被情绪完全劫持 8 00:00:16,861 --> 00:00:18,100 到事后觉察 9 00:00:18,100 --> 00:00:19,420 到实时觉察 10 00:00:19,420 --> 00:00:21,878 到出现一个稳定的内在观察者 11 00:00:21,900 --> 00:00:23,260 最后到第五层 12 00:00:23,260 --> 00:00:25,678 连观察者本身也消融了 13 00:00:25,900 --> 00:00:27,179 视频发出来以后 14 00:00:27,181 --> 00:00:29,277 有位朋友问了一个特别好的问题 15 00:00:29,580 --> 00:00:29,897 他说 16 00:00:30,300 --> 00:00:31,998 五个层次讲得很好 17 00:00:32,100 --> 00:00:34,137 可以讲讲如何做到第五个吗 18 00:00:34,981 --> 00:00:36,057 我当时回复他说 19 00:00:36,420 --> 00:00:37,597 想到第五层 20 00:00:37,621 --> 00:00:40,037 第一步反而是看破前四层 21 00:00:40,301 --> 00:00:43,038 今天我就来把这句话彻底展开 22 00:00:43,341 --> 00:00:43,658 哈喽 23 00:00:43,901 --> 00:00:44,377 大家好 24 00:00:44,581 --> 00:00:45,597 我是王利杰 25 00:00:46,060 --> 00:00:49,317 先帮没看过上期的朋友补一个极简版背景 26 00:00:49,740 --> 00:00:50,218 第一层 27 00:00:50,780 --> 00:00:52,838 情绪来了你直接被带走 28 00:00:52,981 --> 00:00:54,398 事后才反应过来 29 00:00:54,661 --> 00:00:55,137 第二层 30 00:00:55,500 --> 00:00:57,597 你能在情绪过后觉察到 31 00:00:57,621 --> 00:00:57,817 哦 32 00:00:58,140 --> 00:00:59,478 刚才我发火了 33 00:00:59,901 --> 00:01:00,718 第三层 34 00:01:00,820 --> 00:01:03,478 情绪升起的同时你就能看见它 35 00:01:03,621 --> 00:01:06,197 你生气的同时知道自己在生气 36 00:01:06,500 --> 00:01:07,357 第四层 37 00:01:07,420 --> 00:01:10,118 你的内心出现了一个稳定的观察者 38 00:01:10,341 --> 00:01:11,917 用上期的比喻来说 39 00:01:11,940 --> 00:01:15,958 就像坐在特斯拉驾驶座上看着全自动驾驶系统运行 40 00:01:16,181 --> 00:01:17,958 手已经松开了方向盘 41 00:01:17,981 --> 00:01:21,011 但你清清楚楚看着一切在发生 42 00:01:21,273 --> 00:01:22,371 到了第五层 43 00:01:22,514 --> 00:01:26,171 连那个坐在驾驶座上看着的人也变得透明了 44 00:01:26,514 --> 00:01:27,731 不是消失了 45 00:01:27,793 --> 00:01:31,490 是那个观察者和被观察的情绪之间的距离没了 46 00:01:31,874 --> 00:01:33,210 没有一个人在看 47 00:01:33,394 --> 00:01:35,290 也没有一个东西在被看 48 00:01:35,474 --> 00:01:37,531 只有看见本身在发生 49 00:01:38,314 --> 00:01:39,850 听起来很抽象对吧 50 00:01:40,193 --> 00:01:41,690 今天不聊抽象的 51 00:01:41,713 --> 00:01:43,971 我们来拆一个非常具体的问题 52 00:01:44,474 --> 00:01:46,531 从第四层到第五层 53 00:01:46,713 --> 00:01:48,951 中间卡着的到底是什么东西 54 00:01:49,954 --> 00:01:51,451 答案可能让你意外 55 00:01:51,954 --> 00:01:52,971 卡住你的 56 00:01:53,034 --> 00:01:56,050 恰恰就是前四层教给你的所有东西 57 00:01:56,888 --> 00:01:59,625 佛陀在金刚经里讲过一个比喻 58 00:01:59,688 --> 00:02:00,825 叫筏喻 59 00:02:01,089 --> 00:02:01,446 他说 60 00:02:01,809 --> 00:02:03,066 你要过一条河 61 00:02:03,169 --> 00:02:04,866 我给你造了一艘小船 62 00:02:05,209 --> 00:02:06,346 你划呀划 63 00:02:06,369 --> 00:02:08,866 花了很大力气终于到了对岸 64 00:02:09,169 --> 00:02:10,405 那你上岸之后怎么办 65 00:02:11,169 --> 00:02:11,685 按理说 66 00:02:12,169 --> 00:02:12,766 放下船 67 00:02:13,088 --> 00:02:13,986 走你的路 68 00:02:14,289 --> 00:02:15,086 但佛陀说 69 00:02:15,449 --> 00:02:17,586 大多数修行人做的事情是 70 00:02:17,729 --> 00:02:18,206 上了岸 71 00:02:18,569 --> 00:02:21,106 把船扛在头上继续走 72 00:02:21,249 --> 00:02:23,905 而且还特别得意地跟别人说 73 00:02:23,928 --> 00:02:25,345 你看我有船 74 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:27,977 然后佛陀说了一句 75 00:02:28,041 --> 00:02:30,057 可能是整部金刚经里 76 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:31,618 杀伤力最大的话 77 00:02:31,920 --> 00:02:32,877 法尚应舍 78 00:02:33,321 --> 00:02:34,618 何况非法 79 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:36,337 你品品这六个字 80 00:02:36,761 --> 00:02:39,217 连正确的佛法都要舍掉 81 00:02:39,281 --> 00:02:40,977 更何况错误的 82 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:42,037 这等于什么 83 00:02:42,481 --> 00:02:46,418 等于佛陀用了四十多年时间教了一整套系统 84 00:02:46,561 --> 00:02:51,178 三十七道品 十二因缘 唯识八识 般若空观 85 00:02:51,321 --> 00:02:53,657 一砖一瓦搭起了一栋大楼 86 00:02:53,841 --> 00:02:55,858 然后他在金刚经里说 87 00:02:55,881 --> 00:02:57,977 这栋大楼是脚手架 88 00:02:58,321 --> 00:02:59,238 房子建好了 89 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:00,618 脚手架要拆 90 00:03:01,041 --> 00:03:02,977 这不是佛陀在谦虚 91 00:03:03,161 --> 00:03:05,858 这是佛法的底层架构设计 92 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:07,777 工具的终极使命 93 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:10,245 就是让你不再需要工具 94 00:03:10,708 --> 00:03:13,745 那为什么前四层的东西会变成第五层的障碍 95 00:03:14,228 --> 00:03:17,004 我用认知科学的框架帮你拆解一下 96 00:03:17,508 --> 00:03:20,805 我们在之前的视频里讲过预测编码理论 97 00:03:21,147 --> 00:03:24,004 大脑不是被动接收现实的摄像头 98 00:03:24,147 --> 00:03:26,805 它是一台主动生成预测的机器 99 00:03:27,228 --> 00:03:29,125 大脑先生成一个预期 100 00:03:29,268 --> 00:03:31,405 然后拿感官数据来校验 101 00:03:31,708 --> 00:03:33,746 如果数据和预期不匹配 102 00:03:33,747 --> 00:03:35,324 就产生预测误差 103 00:03:35,627 --> 00:03:38,546 学习的过程就是不断调整预期模型 104 00:03:38,548 --> 00:03:40,044 让误差越来越小 105 00:03:40,427 --> 00:03:42,405 修行前四层做的事情 106 00:03:42,508 --> 00:03:46,509 本质上就是在大脑里安装了一个新的预测模型 107 00:03:46,812 --> 00:03:47,528 第一层的人 108 00:03:47,812 --> 00:03:49,389 大脑的默认模型是 109 00:03:49,451 --> 00:03:51,028 情绪等于我 110 00:03:51,532 --> 00:03:52,569 杏仁核一发射 111 00:03:52,812 --> 00:03:54,229 我就是那个愤怒 112 00:03:54,291 --> 00:03:55,308 没有距离 113 00:03:55,772 --> 00:03:57,410 第二层 第三层 114 00:03:57,411 --> 00:04:00,468 你开始在旧模型上面安装一个新模型 115 00:04:00,731 --> 00:04:02,829 这个新模型的核心信念是 116 00:04:02,932 --> 00:04:04,509 情绪不等于我 117 00:04:04,532 --> 00:04:06,148 我可以看见情绪 118 00:04:06,772 --> 00:04:07,891 到了第四层 119 00:04:07,891 --> 00:04:10,229 这个新模型已经非常稳固了 120 00:04:10,492 --> 00:04:13,109 你能持续维持一个观察者视角 121 00:04:13,131 --> 00:04:14,949 看着情绪来来去去 122 00:04:14,972 --> 00:04:16,468 自己不被卷进去 123 00:04:16,891 --> 00:04:17,811 到了这一步 124 00:04:17,811 --> 00:04:20,828 绝大多数人都会觉得自己已经很通透了 125 00:04:21,132 --> 00:04:23,719 但问题恰恰出在这里 126 00:04:24,061 --> 00:04:25,140 那个观察者 127 00:04:25,142 --> 00:04:28,220 那个所谓的我可以看见情绪的那个我 128 00:04:28,222 --> 00:04:29,378 它本身是什么 129 00:04:30,022 --> 00:04:31,318 它是一个模型 130 00:04:31,821 --> 00:04:36,159 它是你用修行训练出来的一套新的先验信念 131 00:04:36,662 --> 00:04:37,979 在唯识学的语言里 132 00:04:38,301 --> 00:04:39,758 这叫法执 133 00:04:40,261 --> 00:04:41,719 对法的执着 134 00:04:42,142 --> 00:04:44,039 你从前执着的是我 135 00:04:44,142 --> 00:04:47,078 执着的是五蕴构成的身心组合 136 00:04:47,342 --> 00:04:48,138 通过修行 137 00:04:48,421 --> 00:04:50,159 你看破了这种执着 138 00:04:50,261 --> 00:04:50,818 恭喜你 139 00:04:51,022 --> 00:04:52,518 我执松动了 140 00:04:52,861 --> 00:04:54,799 但末那识不会闲着 141 00:04:55,061 --> 00:04:58,799 末那识的本能就是抓取一个东西然后宣布 142 00:04:58,861 --> 00:04:59,839 这是我 143 00:05:00,421 --> 00:05:01,378 你破了我执 144 00:05:01,821 --> 00:05:03,078 它松开了五蕴 145 00:05:03,261 --> 00:05:06,438 但它会立刻去抓下一个能抓的东西 146 00:05:07,462 --> 00:05:10,138 这时候它能抓到的最好的东西是什么 147 00:05:10,582 --> 00:05:12,039 就是觉知本身 148 00:05:12,342 --> 00:05:13,339 于是末那识说 149 00:05:13,702 --> 00:05:14,198 好 150 00:05:14,342 --> 00:05:15,900 我不是那些情绪了 151 00:05:15,902 --> 00:05:18,159 我是看见情绪的那个觉知 152 00:05:19,073 --> 00:05:20,489 你有没有发现一件事 153 00:05:20,593 --> 00:05:23,050 从我是愤怒变成了我是觉知 154 00:05:23,232 --> 00:05:24,112 主语换了 155 00:05:24,112 --> 00:05:25,369 但句式没变 156 00:05:25,513 --> 00:05:27,831 主语从五蕴换成了觉知 157 00:05:27,833 --> 00:05:29,769 但还是有一个我在那里 158 00:05:29,992 --> 00:05:31,889 我执变成了法执 159 00:05:31,953 --> 00:05:34,232 你从一个笼子搬进了另一个笼子 160 00:05:34,232 --> 00:05:36,689 只不过新笼子装修得比较高级 161 00:05:36,713 --> 00:05:39,410 你暂时还没认出来它也是笼子 162 00:05:39,593 --> 00:05:42,689 这就是很多人在修行路上卡住的地方 163 00:05:42,913 --> 00:05:44,110 能看见情绪了 164 00:05:44,352 --> 00:05:45,472 不被带走了 165 00:05:45,473 --> 00:05:46,850 内心挺安静的 166 00:05:46,872 --> 00:05:48,889 但总有一种微妙的违和感 167 00:05:49,073 --> 00:05:50,449 那种违和感就是 168 00:05:50,473 --> 00:05:53,312 观察者本身变成了一个新的身份 169 00:05:53,312 --> 00:05:54,809 一个新的执着点 170 00:05:55,352 --> 00:05:56,472 你修了这么久 171 00:05:56,473 --> 00:05:58,970 修出了一个精致的灵性身份证 172 00:05:58,992 --> 00:06:00,949 然后你用它来定义自己 173 00:06:01,572 --> 00:06:04,949 神经科学对这个现象有一些很有意思的观察 174 00:06:05,293 --> 00:06:08,029 研究长期冥想者大脑的实验发现 175 00:06:08,252 --> 00:06:10,029 初学者在冥想时 176 00:06:10,053 --> 00:06:12,990 默认模式网络的活动会明显降低 177 00:06:13,293 --> 00:06:17,349 默认模式网络就是那个不停在你脑子里讲故事的系统 178 00:06:17,493 --> 00:06:18,050 我是谁 179 00:06:18,372 --> 00:06:19,572 别人怎么看我 180 00:06:19,572 --> 00:06:20,370 明天要干嘛 181 00:06:20,733 --> 00:06:22,509 昨天那件事好丢人 182 00:06:22,692 --> 00:06:25,411 初学者冥想的时候这些故事停了 183 00:06:25,413 --> 00:06:26,589 人安静了 184 00:06:26,652 --> 00:06:30,232 这大致对应的是第二第三层的状态 185 00:06:30,535 --> 00:06:34,472 但长期冥想者的大脑呈现出一个不同的模式 186 00:06:34,814 --> 00:06:37,094 不是默认模式网络被关闭了 187 00:06:37,095 --> 00:06:40,511 而是默认模式网络和任务正向网络之间 188 00:06:40,535 --> 00:06:43,431 那种跷跷板式的对抗消失了 189 00:06:43,895 --> 00:06:45,133 普通人的大脑里 190 00:06:45,135 --> 00:06:47,631 这两个网络是互相拮抗的 191 00:06:47,655 --> 00:06:49,832 一个活跃另一个就安静 192 00:06:50,054 --> 00:06:52,133 但在深度冥想者的大脑里 193 00:06:52,135 --> 00:06:55,672 两个网络可以同时运行而不再打架 194 00:06:56,135 --> 00:06:58,011 这在认知科学里意味着什么 195 00:06:58,535 --> 00:07:00,693 意味着高阶的冥想状态 196 00:07:00,695 --> 00:07:03,511 不是一个网络压制了另一个网络 197 00:07:03,535 --> 00:07:06,311 不是观察者压制了被观察者 198 00:07:06,374 --> 00:07:10,524 而是两者之间的对立关系本身消解了 199 00:07:10,906 --> 00:07:12,183 第四层的状态是 200 00:07:12,546 --> 00:07:13,843 你坐在这里 201 00:07:13,867 --> 00:07:15,146 情绪在那里 202 00:07:15,146 --> 00:07:16,303 中间有一个距离 203 00:07:16,507 --> 00:07:17,603 你看着它 204 00:07:17,867 --> 00:07:18,663 第五层是 205 00:07:18,987 --> 00:07:20,524 这个距离归零了 206 00:07:20,786 --> 00:07:23,283 不是观察者和情绪合并了 207 00:07:23,346 --> 00:07:26,524 是距离这个维度本身不再存在了 208 00:07:26,706 --> 00:07:30,683 就像你不能问北极在北极的北边还是南边 209 00:07:31,106 --> 00:07:32,124 到了北极 210 00:07:32,266 --> 00:07:35,685 南北这个坐标系对你失去了意义 211 00:07:35,947 --> 00:07:38,404 宋代有一位青原惟信禅师 212 00:07:38,428 --> 00:07:39,605 说过三句话 213 00:07:39,668 --> 00:07:42,365 可能是对这个过程最精炼的描述 214 00:07:42,588 --> 00:07:42,944 他说 215 00:07:43,468 --> 00:07:46,045 老僧三十年前未参禅时 216 00:07:46,228 --> 00:07:47,225 见山是山 217 00:07:47,588 --> 00:07:48,805 见水是水 218 00:07:49,187 --> 00:07:50,944 及至后来亲见知识 219 00:07:51,307 --> 00:07:52,365 有个入处 220 00:07:52,468 --> 00:07:53,625 见山不是山 221 00:07:54,028 --> 00:07:55,524 见水不是水 222 00:07:55,788 --> 00:07:57,185 而今得个休歇处 223 00:07:57,548 --> 00:07:59,565 依前见山只是山 224 00:07:59,588 --> 00:08:01,826 见水只是水 225 00:08:02,208 --> 00:08:03,006 见山是山 226 00:08:03,408 --> 00:08:04,386 是第一层 227 00:08:04,729 --> 00:08:06,626 你和世界之间没有距离 228 00:08:06,809 --> 00:08:08,746 但那不是因为你通透了 229 00:08:08,768 --> 00:08:10,785 是因为你压根没觉察过 230 00:08:11,129 --> 00:08:13,066 你跟山是粘在一起的 231 00:08:13,689 --> 00:08:14,725 见山不是山 232 00:08:15,328 --> 00:08:16,905 是第二到第四层 233 00:08:17,489 --> 00:08:18,705 你开始拆了 234 00:08:19,008 --> 00:08:20,446 你发现山不只是山 235 00:08:20,848 --> 00:08:22,407 它是原子组成的 236 00:08:22,408 --> 00:08:23,285 是缘起的 237 00:08:23,648 --> 00:08:25,345 是你的大脑建构的 238 00:08:25,689 --> 00:08:29,066 你用概念工具把朴素的世界拆开了 239 00:08:29,609 --> 00:08:30,165 这很好 240 00:08:30,408 --> 00:08:31,426 这很必要 241 00:08:31,609 --> 00:08:33,287 但如果你停在这一步 242 00:08:33,289 --> 00:08:35,746 你就变成了一个永远在分析的人 243 00:08:36,008 --> 00:08:37,106 你吃一碗饭 244 00:08:37,248 --> 00:08:40,305 脑子里想的是碳水化合物和胰岛素反应 245 00:08:40,568 --> 00:08:41,665 你看一朵花 246 00:08:41,769 --> 00:08:44,386 想的是进化生物学和传粉策略 247 00:08:45,009 --> 00:08:46,647 你把世界看穿了 248 00:08:46,649 --> 00:08:49,185 但你也把世界看没了 249 00:08:49,567 --> 00:08:50,565 见山还是山 250 00:08:50,847 --> 00:08:51,865 是第五层 251 00:08:52,128 --> 00:08:53,404 所有工具放下了 252 00:08:53,607 --> 00:08:55,105 山又变回了山 253 00:08:55,168 --> 00:08:56,624 水又变回了水 254 00:08:56,768 --> 00:08:59,006 看起来和第一层一模一样 255 00:08:59,008 --> 00:09:00,745 但完全不是一回事 256 00:09:01,008 --> 00:09:04,264 第一层是从来没上过楼的人站在一楼 257 00:09:04,528 --> 00:09:07,807 第五层是上到了楼顶然后走下来的人 258 00:09:07,807 --> 00:09:09,345 重新站在了一楼 259 00:09:09,687 --> 00:09:10,404 位置一样 260 00:09:10,648 --> 00:09:12,528 风景完全不同 261 00:09:12,990 --> 00:09:14,988 那具体怎么从第四层到第五层 262 00:09:15,471 --> 00:09:18,408 这里我要说一句可能让很多人失望的实话 263 00:09:18,831 --> 00:09:20,687 第五层不是练出来的 264 00:09:21,150 --> 00:09:22,447 它是发生的 265 00:09:22,791 --> 00:09:24,327 前四层你可以练 266 00:09:24,831 --> 00:09:26,187 你可以练觉察情绪 267 00:09:26,551 --> 00:09:27,967 可以做正念训练 268 00:09:28,030 --> 00:09:29,008 可以坐禅 269 00:09:29,150 --> 00:09:32,168 可以用各种方法让观察力越来越敏锐 270 00:09:32,591 --> 00:09:33,548 这些都是法 271 00:09:34,071 --> 00:09:34,788 都是工具 272 00:09:35,191 --> 00:09:36,008 都是筏 273 00:09:36,510 --> 00:09:40,087 但第五层不是一个你可以用工具抵达的目的地 274 00:09:40,471 --> 00:09:42,870 因为第五层要求你放下的 275 00:09:42,870 --> 00:09:45,244 恰恰是使用工具的那个人 276 00:09:45,507 --> 00:09:48,565 你没办法用一把刀把刀自己切掉 277 00:09:49,068 --> 00:09:51,685 你没办法用思维去消灭思维 278 00:09:52,108 --> 00:09:55,165 你没办法用观察者去取消观察者 279 00:09:55,547 --> 00:09:57,204 所有这些方向的努力 280 00:09:57,348 --> 00:09:59,844 最终都会制造新一轮的执着 281 00:10:00,468 --> 00:10:01,704 我在努力放下 282 00:10:02,068 --> 00:10:03,645 我在认真看穿 283 00:10:03,787 --> 00:10:06,685 我在修行一个叫做不修行的修行 284 00:10:06,975 --> 00:10:07,776 你看 285 00:10:07,868 --> 00:10:11,370 每一个这样的念头都在砌新的砖 286 00:10:11,992 --> 00:10:12,550 那怎么办 287 00:10:13,073 --> 00:10:15,050 禅宗的态度特别有意思 288 00:10:15,272 --> 00:10:16,750 它不是告诉你别修了 289 00:10:16,992 --> 00:10:18,089 而是告诉你 290 00:10:18,152 --> 00:10:18,349 修 291 00:10:18,872 --> 00:10:20,650 但别把修当回事 292 00:10:21,073 --> 00:10:23,449 有一个公案特别能说明这个意思 293 00:10:23,912 --> 00:10:25,630 一个和尚问赵州禅师 294 00:10:26,032 --> 00:10:27,431 弟子刚入丛林 295 00:10:27,433 --> 00:10:28,650 请师父指点 296 00:10:28,872 --> 00:10:29,429 赵州说 297 00:10:29,833 --> 00:10:31,089 你吃了粥没有 298 00:10:31,232 --> 00:10:31,790 和尚说 299 00:10:32,152 --> 00:10:32,809 吃了 300 00:10:33,032 --> 00:10:33,550 赵州说 301 00:10:33,912 --> 00:10:35,628 那去把碗洗了吧 302 00:10:36,051 --> 00:10:37,107 就这么简单 303 00:10:37,490 --> 00:10:38,947 没有什么高级指导 304 00:10:39,051 --> 00:10:40,587 没有什么秘传口诀 305 00:10:41,051 --> 00:10:42,528 你该修行就修行 306 00:10:42,811 --> 00:10:44,289 该打坐就打坐 307 00:10:44,290 --> 00:10:45,748 该觉察就觉察 308 00:10:46,130 --> 00:10:49,388 但不要在这些动作上面再叠一层叙事 309 00:10:49,770 --> 00:10:51,628 不要一边洗碗一边想 310 00:10:51,730 --> 00:10:55,187 我正在做一件非常了不起的事情叫做修行 311 00:10:55,770 --> 00:10:57,107 吃粥就吃粥 312 00:10:57,610 --> 00:10:58,947 洗碗就洗碗 313 00:10:59,490 --> 00:11:00,987 修行就修行 314 00:11:01,530 --> 00:11:05,769 别在修行之上再建一座关于修行的宫殿 315 00:11:06,153 --> 00:11:07,289 真正的放下 316 00:11:07,352 --> 00:11:09,610 不是你决定放下的那个动作 317 00:11:10,072 --> 00:11:11,429 是你修到了某一天 318 00:11:11,873 --> 00:11:12,889 回头一看 319 00:11:12,992 --> 00:11:14,490 手里已经空了 320 00:11:14,873 --> 00:11:16,610 不知道什么时候放下的 321 00:11:17,033 --> 00:11:19,610 不是你做了一个叫做放下的决定 322 00:11:19,873 --> 00:11:21,250 是你活着活着 323 00:11:21,273 --> 00:11:24,649 某一刻发现那个一直在抓东西的手松了 324 00:11:25,153 --> 00:11:26,370 不是你松的 325 00:11:26,793 --> 00:11:28,413 它自己松的 326 00:11:28,875 --> 00:11:30,533 我做投资这么多年 327 00:11:30,556 --> 00:11:33,493 其实经历过一个结构上很类似的过程 328 00:11:33,836 --> 00:11:35,773 刚入行的时候靠直觉 329 00:11:35,875 --> 00:11:37,972 看到什么觉得好就投了 330 00:11:38,155 --> 00:11:39,932 后来学了一堆方法论 331 00:11:40,076 --> 00:11:42,233 赛道分析 商业模式评估 332 00:11:42,595 --> 00:11:45,332 创始人画像 市场规模测算 333 00:11:45,395 --> 00:11:47,293 各种框架各种模型 334 00:11:47,595 --> 00:11:50,332 这些工具确实帮我避开了不少坑 335 00:11:50,716 --> 00:11:54,253 但到了某个阶段我发现自己反而变迟钝了 336 00:11:54,556 --> 00:11:56,013 不是工具不好用 337 00:11:56,155 --> 00:11:58,533 是我变成了一个工具的操作员 338 00:11:58,916 --> 00:12:00,514 我不是在看项目了 339 00:12:00,515 --> 00:12:02,812 我是在把项目往模型里塞 340 00:12:03,235 --> 00:12:06,332 项目本身长什么样我反而看不清了 341 00:12:06,395 --> 00:12:08,289 我眼睛里全是模型 342 00:12:08,791 --> 00:12:10,929 后来有一天我突然意识到 343 00:12:10,952 --> 00:12:12,929 我最好的几个投资决策 344 00:12:12,992 --> 00:12:14,809 都不是模型告诉我的 345 00:12:14,872 --> 00:12:17,248 是我跟创始人聊了十分钟之后 346 00:12:17,311 --> 00:12:19,950 身体里某个说不清楚的地方告诉我 347 00:12:19,950 --> 00:12:20,680 对了 348 00:12:20,952 --> 00:12:22,888 那种感觉不是没有逻辑 349 00:12:22,952 --> 00:12:25,351 是所有的逻辑都已经内化了 350 00:12:25,352 --> 00:12:27,208 不需要刻意去调用了 351 00:12:27,352 --> 00:12:29,008 就像你开了十年车 352 00:12:29,072 --> 00:12:32,888 换挡的时候不需要想离合器和油门的配合关系 353 00:12:32,992 --> 00:12:34,128 你就是知道 354 00:12:34,551 --> 00:12:36,888 这就有点像见山还是山 355 00:12:37,271 --> 00:12:38,748 不是没学过那些模型 356 00:12:39,072 --> 00:12:40,190 是学完了 357 00:12:40,191 --> 00:12:41,111 学透了 358 00:12:41,112 --> 00:12:43,888 学到你不再需要刻意想起它的程度 359 00:12:44,712 --> 00:12:47,169 它变成了你看世界的方式本身 360 00:12:47,271 --> 00:12:50,260 而不是一个你需要拿出来使用的工具 361 00:12:50,644 --> 00:12:51,701 回到修行 362 00:12:51,924 --> 00:12:54,221 第五层不是否定前四层 363 00:12:54,363 --> 00:12:55,081 恰恰相反 364 00:12:55,443 --> 00:12:57,101 没有前四层的积累 365 00:12:57,164 --> 00:12:59,341 第五层根本不可能发生 366 00:12:59,723 --> 00:13:01,880 佛陀说的是法尚应舍 367 00:13:02,244 --> 00:13:03,821 不是法不用学 368 00:13:04,164 --> 00:13:05,160 你得先有筏 369 00:13:05,563 --> 00:13:07,180 才谈得上舍筏 370 00:13:07,644 --> 00:13:10,260 从来没上过船的人说我不需要船 371 00:13:10,323 --> 00:13:11,563 那不叫放下 372 00:13:11,563 --> 00:13:13,020 那叫还没开始 373 00:13:13,203 --> 00:13:16,163 肯 威尔伯有一个概念叫前超谬误 374 00:13:16,164 --> 00:13:17,380 说的就是这个 375 00:13:17,524 --> 00:13:18,601 婴儿没有自我 376 00:13:18,924 --> 00:13:20,621 觉者超越了自我 377 00:13:20,644 --> 00:13:21,961 看起来都是无我 378 00:13:22,323 --> 00:13:24,203 但一个是还没上楼 379 00:13:24,203 --> 00:13:26,300 一个是从楼顶下来的 380 00:13:26,443 --> 00:13:29,380 你不能从地下室直接跳到天台 381 00:13:29,603 --> 00:13:32,260 但你也不能死抱着梯子不撒手 382 00:13:33,083 --> 00:13:35,501 修行真正难的地方不是学法 383 00:13:35,603 --> 00:13:38,489 是在该放的时候放得下法 384 00:13:38,673 --> 00:13:40,329 金刚经里还有一句话 385 00:13:40,473 --> 00:13:42,609 应无所住而生其心 386 00:13:42,992 --> 00:13:44,229 不住在任何地方 387 00:13:44,512 --> 00:13:46,170 但心照样运转 388 00:13:46,353 --> 00:13:47,770 不是把心关掉 389 00:13:47,833 --> 00:13:51,130 是让心不再粘在任何一个停靠站上 390 00:13:51,392 --> 00:13:52,150 情绪来了 391 00:13:52,392 --> 00:13:53,290 心动了 392 00:13:53,353 --> 00:13:54,150 情绪走了 393 00:13:54,353 --> 00:13:55,489 心又空了 394 00:13:55,593 --> 00:13:59,409 中间没有一个观察者蹲在那里做笔记 395 00:13:59,952 --> 00:14:01,228 所有帮助过你的东西 396 00:14:01,712 --> 00:14:02,929 觉察的技术 397 00:14:02,952 --> 00:14:03,868 呼吸的方法 398 00:14:04,151 --> 00:14:05,368 观照的框架 399 00:14:05,472 --> 00:14:07,368 甚至佛陀说的每一句话 400 00:14:07,472 --> 00:14:09,529 当它们完成了自己的使命 401 00:14:09,551 --> 00:14:11,769 当它们把你送到了河的对岸 402 00:14:11,832 --> 00:14:13,968 请你轻轻地把它放在岸边 403 00:14:14,311 --> 00:14:15,228 不用摧毁它 404 00:14:15,551 --> 00:14:16,508 不用否定它 405 00:14:16,872 --> 00:14:17,889 就是放下 406 00:14:18,192 --> 00:14:21,368 就像你不会恨一艘帮你渡过急流的船 407 00:14:21,872 --> 00:14:24,878 你只是不再需要背着它走路了 408 00:14:25,381 --> 00:14:28,317 然后你可能会发现一件奇妙的事情 409 00:14:28,580 --> 00:14:30,397 当你真正放下了工具 410 00:14:30,460 --> 00:14:33,598 那个一直在使用工具的人也变得透明了 411 00:14:33,940 --> 00:14:34,777 不是不见了 412 00:14:35,100 --> 00:14:36,118 是透明了 413 00:14:36,381 --> 00:14:36,978 他还在 414 00:14:37,301 --> 00:14:39,078 但他不再遮挡什么了 415 00:14:39,301 --> 00:14:42,718 就好像你手里一直举着一块玻璃在看世界 416 00:14:43,021 --> 00:14:45,037 你把玻璃擦得越来越干净 417 00:14:45,100 --> 00:14:49,317 从脏玻璃到普通玻璃到无色玻璃到超白玻璃 418 00:14:49,620 --> 00:14:52,557 但它再怎么干净也还是一块玻璃 419 00:14:52,781 --> 00:14:55,277 直到有一天你把玻璃放下了 420 00:14:55,541 --> 00:14:58,478 你发现世界并没有因此变得更清楚 421 00:14:58,820 --> 00:15:01,238 因为世界一直就是那个样子 422 00:15:01,541 --> 00:15:05,218 是你一直举着一块叫做看的东西在看 423 00:15:05,641 --> 00:15:06,897 今天拆了一个问题 424 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,257 从第四层到第五层 425 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,698 卡着你的那堵墙到底是什么 426 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:12,438 答案是 427 00:15:12,721 --> 00:15:14,658 那堵墙是你自己砌的 428 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:17,338 你每多学一个法门就多一块砖 429 00:15:17,641 --> 00:15:18,517 觉察是一块 430 00:15:18,881 --> 00:15:20,058 正念是一块 431 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:21,559 看见无我是一块 432 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:23,578 知道自己在看见是一块 433 00:15:23,841 --> 00:15:25,298 每一块都是好砖 434 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:28,108 但好砖堆在一起它也是墙 435 00:15:28,452 --> 00:15:30,429 佛陀说法尚应舍 436 00:15:30,491 --> 00:15:32,549 就是来帮你拆这堵墙的 437 00:15:32,651 --> 00:15:35,149 而拆墙的那一刻你可能会发现 438 00:15:35,212 --> 00:15:37,108 墙后面什么也没有 439 00:15:37,411 --> 00:15:39,669 不是空无一物的那种没有 440 00:15:40,212 --> 00:15:45,204 是从来就没有一个需要穿过墙才能到达的另一边 441 00:15:45,548 --> 00:15:47,405 最后留一个问题给你 442 00:15:47,828 --> 00:15:49,964 如果连放下也要放下 443 00:15:50,107 --> 00:15:52,385 那站在最后的到底是什么 444 00:15:53,027 --> 00:15:54,885 这个问题我没有答案 445 00:15:55,267 --> 00:15:57,844 或者说任何语言形式的答案 446 00:15:57,907 --> 00:16:01,084 出口的那一瞬间就变成了一块新的砖 447 00:16:01,507 --> 00:16:04,964 我能做的只是和你一起站在这个问题面前 448 00:16:05,267 --> 00:16:05,864 站久了 449 00:16:06,107 --> 00:16:08,525 也许问题自己会安静下来 450 00:16:08,708 --> 00:16:09,545 而那个安静 451 00:16:09,948 --> 00:16:12,226 也许就是它自己的回答 452 00:16:12,823 --> 00:16:13,380 你觉得呢 453 00:16:13,755 --> 00:16:16,920 你在修行的路上有没有被自己修来的东西卡住过 454 00:16:17,408 --> 00:16:19,138 欢迎告诉我你的体验 455 00:16:19,384 --> 00:16:20,015 我是王利杰 456 00:16:20,278 --> 00:16:21,126 我们下期见