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皈依不是入教

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你从第一步就搞错了

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很多人觉得

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皈依就是找个寺庙

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跪下磕三个头

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师父给你取个法名

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从此你就算佛教徒了

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有的人还专门挑个黄道吉日

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穿上海青

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仪式感拉满

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完了之后发个朋友圈

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配上一张寺庙的照片

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写一句

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今日皈依

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法名某某

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感恩师父

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底下一堆朋友点赞

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恭喜恭喜

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功德无量

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整个过程

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跟加入一个俱乐部差不多

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办了个会员卡

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从此你有了一个新的身份标签

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这个理解不能说全错

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但它遗漏了皈依最核心的东西

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如果你真去读巴利文经典里最早关于皈依的记载

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你会发现一件非常意外的事

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皈依这个行为

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跟你信不信佛

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几乎没有关系

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哈喽

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大家好

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我是王利杰

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今天这期

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我想把皈依这个被严重仪式化的概念拆开

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看看它的骨头到底长什么样

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我们先从两个字开始

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皈

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繁体写作歸

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就是回来的意思

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依

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是依靠

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依止

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所以皈依的字面意思

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不是加入

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不是臣服

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更不是入教

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它的本意是

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回来

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然后依靠

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这两个字暴露了一个很关键的信息

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回来

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意味着你不是去一个新地方

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你是回到一个你本来就在 但不知何时离开了的地方

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这个方向

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不是向外的

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是向内的

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问题来了

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回到哪里

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依靠什么

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这就是皈依三宝这四个字要回答的

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皈依佛

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皈依法

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皈依僧

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三句话

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听起来非常简单

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但每一句背后

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都藏着一个跟大多数人的直觉完全不同的意思

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我们一个一个拆

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先说皈依佛

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大多数人以为皈依佛就是拜佛

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信佛

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把释迦牟尼当一个超自然的存在来崇拜

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你去看很多寺庙里的佛像

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金光灿灿

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高高在上

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香火缭绕

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确实很容易让人产生一种崇拜感

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但如果你因此以为皈依佛就是从今天开始信这尊像

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那你一开始就走偏了

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佛这个字不是一个名字

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它是一个状态的描述

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佛陀是梵语buddha的音译

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意思是觉醒者

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一个从沉睡中醒过来的人

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注意

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它说的不是一个神

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不是一个造物主

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不是一个掌管你命运的超自然力量

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它说的就是一个人

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一个和你我一样有血有肉的人

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他做到了一件事

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就是彻底醒了过来

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而且这件事不是他的专利

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在佛学的框架里

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任何人

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只要走通了这条路

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都可以被称为佛

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佛不是一个独一无二的位置

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它是一个所有人都有潜力到达的状态

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所以皈依佛真正的意思是什么

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是我承认

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觉醒这件事是可能的

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人类是可以从那种自动驾驶的

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被念头和情绪推着走的混沌状态里醒过来的

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有人做到过

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所以这条路是通的

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我也打算走

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你看

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这跟拜一个神的性质完全不一样

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拜神是向外交托

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我搞不定了

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我太渺小了

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请一个比我更强大的存在来帮我

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保护我 替我做决定

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皈依佛是向内确认

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有人走通了这条路

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它不是神话

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不是传说

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是一个真实发生过的认知事件

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我也有能力去经历同样的事

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一个是放弃主权

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一个是认领主权

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方向完全相反

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这就是为什么佛陀临终前说的那句话如此重要

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他说

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以自己为灯

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以法为灯

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不要以任何外在的东西为灯

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巴利文原文的意思是

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以自为洲

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以法为洲

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一个真正的觉醒者

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在生命最后一刻

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没有说你们要永远记住我

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没有说你们要崇拜我

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他说的是

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回到你自己身上去

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皈依佛

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不是皈依那个人

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是皈依他证明过的那种可能性

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再说皈依法

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法

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梵语dharma

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这个词在佛学里含义非常丰富

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但在三皈依的语境里

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它最核心的意思就是佛陀教导的方法论

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注意

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方法论

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不是教条

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不是戒律

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不是一套你必须背下来考试的知识点

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佛陀讲了四圣谛 十二因缘 八正道

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这些我们前两期讲阿含经的时候拆过了

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但皈依法的重点不在于你能不能把这些名词背下来

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而在于一个更简单也更困难的问题

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你是否愿意用这套工具来观察你自己

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我打个比方

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想象你面前有两种理解世界的操作系统

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第一种

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是你从出生就在运行的默认系统

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它的核心假设是

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有一个我

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这个我是真实的 固定的 需要被满足的

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它需要被保护 被认可 被爱

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满足了就快乐

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被威胁了就痛苦

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被忽视了就焦虑

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你全部的人生

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就是围绕着这个我的需求在转

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这套系统你太熟了

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熟到你根本意识不到它在运行

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就像鱼不知道水一样

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第二种系统告诉你

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等等

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这个我本身就是被建构出来的

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它不是一个实体

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它是一连串心理过程产生的一种感觉

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你可以去观察它

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你可以看见它是怎么在每一个念头里

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被反复创造出来的

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而你所有的痛苦

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根源不在于外面发生了什么坏事

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而在于这套系统在按照一个错误的前提在拼命运转

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皈依法

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就是你做了一个决定

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我愿意试试切换到第二种系统

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我不一定能马上用好它

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甚至可能经常崩溃

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经常切回老系统

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但我愿意试

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这跟信一套教义

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是完全不同的两件事

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佛陀自己说过一个非常有名的比喻

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记载在巴利文的蛇喻经里

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他说

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我讲的法就像渡河的木筏

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你在河这边

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对岸是安全的

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没有桥

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没有船

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你只能自己扎一个筏子

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划过去

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划到对岸以后

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你是背着这个筏子继续走路呢

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还是把它放在岸边

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显然是放下

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一个教你连工具本身都要放下的人

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他要的到底是你的信仰

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还是你的实践

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答案太明显了

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法不是用来信的

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法是用来用的

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用完了

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法本身也可以放下

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这才是皈依法最深的意思

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它意味着

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你连对佛法的执着

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最终也要放下

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最后说皈依僧

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这一条是被误解得最厉害的

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很多人以为皈依僧就是认一个师父

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拜一个山头

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从此师父说什么你就听什么

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或者再宽泛一点

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就是尊敬出家人 供养寺庙 给僧人磕头

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这些理解不能说没有道理

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但都没有触及核心

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僧

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梵语sangha

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僧伽的简称

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意思是和合众

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什么叫和合众

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就是一群人因为同一个目标聚在了一起

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遵守共同的规则

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形成一个运转的共同体

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在我历史脉络系列里有一期专门讲过佛陀的僧团组织

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那套制度设计在两千五百年前是非常超前的

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有民主议事程序

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有经济平等制度

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有集体决策机制

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但这些制度都是外壳

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僧伽最核心的功能

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不是制度

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是镜子

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你一个人修行

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最大的陷阱是什么

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是你没有镜子

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你以为自己想明白了

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其实只是换了一种更精致的自我欺骗

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你以为自己放下了

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其实只是累了不想争了

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你以为自己开悟了

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其实只是在脑子里搭了一套更漂亮的概念大厦

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住在里面自我感觉良好

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这不是你笨

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也不是你不努力

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这是人类认知的一个结构性缺陷

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每个人都有认知盲区

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而盲区之所以叫盲区

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就是因为你自己看不见

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你能看见别人的盲区

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你看不见自己的

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就像你的眼睛能看见世界上几乎所有的东西

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唯独看不见它自己

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你需要另一双眼睛

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或者说

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你需要一面活的镜子

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僧伽的作用就在这里

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不是教你 管你 审判你

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而是在真实的共同生活和修行中

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让你看见自己看不见的东西

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你可能在打坐的时候觉得自己特别平静

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但跟同修相处五分钟

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你的嫉妒心 攀比心 控制欲

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全都冒出来了

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那面镜子不是挂在墙上的

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它是活的

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它会跟你碰撞

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会让你在碰撞中照见自己最不想看的部分

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皈依僧

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就是你承认

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这条路我一个人走不通

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不是因为我不够强

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而是因为人的认知有一个先天的结构性漏洞

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你看不见自己看不见的东西

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你需要同路人帮你照见

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好

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三皈依拆完了

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我们退后一步

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看看这整件事到底在做什么

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皈依佛

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我确认方向是通的

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皈依法

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我接受了一套方法论

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皈依僧

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我加入了一个实践共同体

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方向

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方法

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共同体

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你有没有觉得

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这个结构特别像一件我们现代人很熟悉的事情

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托马斯 库恩在1962年写了一本影响极大的书

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叫 科学革命的结构

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他在里面描述了科学家是怎么完成

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从旧范式到新范式的转换的

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第一步

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他确认新范式比旧范式更有解释力

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这是皈依佛

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第二步

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他学习新范式的核心框架和研究方法

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这是皈依法

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第三步

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他加入接受新范式的科学共同体

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跟一群人一起用新范式做研究

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这是皈依僧

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库恩特别强调了第三步的重要性

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他说一个科学家真正完成范式转换

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很大程度上不是因为他独自思考被逻辑说服了

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而是因为他加入了一个新的共同体

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在这个共同体里日复一日地用新范式工作

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新范式才逐渐从一种理论变成了他看世界的方式

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孤立的个人

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是很难完成范式转换的

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佛陀在两千五百年前设计的三皈依结构

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跟库恩在二十世纪观察到的科学革命规律

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几乎一模一样

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这不太可能是巧合

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更可能的解释是

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他们在不同的时代 不同的领域

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触碰到了同一个关于人类认知

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如何实现根本性转换的底层规律

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理解了这一层

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你就能回答一个困扰很多人的问题

335
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为什么有些人皈依了十年二十年

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磕了无数的头

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念了无数的经

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烧了无数的香

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但他们的思维方式 情绪模式 跟人相处的方式

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好像一点都没变

341
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该发脾气还是发脾气

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该计较还是计较

343
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该执着的一样也没少

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因为他们做了仪式

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但没有启动重装

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他们以为皈依是一个事件

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是在某年某月某日某寺庙完成的一个动作

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做完了就完了

349
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就像打了一针疫苗

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但皈依不是一个事件

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皈依是一个持续的过程

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就像你不会因为买了一本编程书就变成程序员

353
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你也不会因为做了一个仪式就完成了认知的根本转换

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仪式是入口

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但入口不是目的地

356
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那真正的皈依

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怎么检验

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其实很简单

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你看世界的方式

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有没有开始发生变化

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当你遇到一件让你愤怒的事

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你的第一反应是冲出去战斗

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还是你能有那么半秒钟的间隙

364
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先看一眼这个愤怒本身

365
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当你强烈想要一样东西的时候

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你能不能有那么一个瞬间

367
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不是被这个欲望直接拖着跑

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而是看见了

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我在想要

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这个念头本身

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如果有

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哪怕只是偶尔出现

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那你的皈依已经在生效了

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不是因为仪式起了什么神秘作用

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而是因为你真的在用那套新系统来运行了

376
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哪怕只是闪了一下

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如果完全没有

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那那个仪式对你来说就只是一个社交活动

379
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法名还是法名

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你还是原来那个你

381
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佛像还是佛像

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它不会因为你磕了一万个头就替你完成觉醒

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最后我想说说

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皈依和信仰

385
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到底有什么根本区别

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在很多宗教传统里

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信是第一要求

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你先信

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然后恩典降临

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先有信仰

391
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后有体验

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方向是从上到下的

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上帝 真主 或者某个至高存在先存在着

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你信他

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他来接你

396
00:13:39,261 --> 00:13:42,516
佛学的皈依走的是完全相反的方向

397
00:13:42,861 --> 00:13:46,516
佛陀在迦拉玛经里说过一段非常著名的话

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他对迦拉玛族的人说

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不要因为传统一直如此就相信

400
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不要因为经典这么写就相信

401
00:13:54,501 --> 00:13:57,075
不要因为老师是权威就相信

402
00:13:57,220 --> 00:14:00,035
不要因为推理似乎说得通就相信

403
00:14:00,220 --> 00:14:02,715
只有当你自己亲身实践之后

404
00:14:02,820 --> 00:14:07,099
确认这件事确实能减少你的痛苦 增加你的智慧

405
00:14:07,101 --> 00:14:08,595
你才应该接受它

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00:14:08,940 --> 00:14:10,675
你品品这句话的分量

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00:14:11,021 --> 00:14:12,415
一个宗教的创始人

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亲口告诉追随者

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00:14:14,580 --> 00:14:16,756
不要盲目相信他说的话

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你去看基督教 伊斯兰教 印度教

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有哪个创始人或先知会对信徒说

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别信我说的

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你自己去试

414
00:14:25,828 --> 00:14:26,884
几乎没有

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但佛陀就这么说了

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这在整个世界宗教史上

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都是极其罕见的

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他不是在要你的信仰

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00:14:35,188 --> 00:14:37,843
他是在邀请你亲自做实验

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00:14:38,517 --> 00:14:39,831
所以佛学的皈依

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本质上不是我信了

422
00:14:41,956 --> 00:14:44,331
而是我决定亲自去验证

423
00:14:44,877 --> 00:14:45,752
它不是终点

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是起点

425
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不是一次性完成的宣誓

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00:14:49,357 --> 00:14:54,012
而是每一天 每一刻都在重新发生的选择

427
00:14:54,436 --> 00:14:55,872
每次你选择觉察

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而不是自动反应

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00:14:57,637 --> 00:14:59,051
你就在皈依佛

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每次你用观察代替本能的对抗和逃避

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你就在皈依法

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00:15:05,716 --> 00:15:09,555
每次你在与别人的碰撞中看见了自己的盲区

433
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而不是只看见别人的问题

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00:15:11,956 --> 00:15:13,411
你就在皈依僧

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00:15:13,864 --> 00:15:14,619
皈依三宝

436
00:15:14,984 --> 00:15:16,1000
其实是皈依了三种能力

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觉醒的可能性

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这是佛

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观察自心的方法论

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这是法

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00:15:22,785 --> 00:15:25,664
在同路人面前照见盲区的勇气

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这是僧

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这三样东西不在任何寺庙里

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不在任何仪式里

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不在任何一个法名里

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那它们在哪里

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皈依的皈字已经告诉你了

448
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皈

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回来

450
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回到你自己身上

451
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这三样东西

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一直都在

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你不是去找一个新的东西

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00:15:45,658 --> 00:15:48,793
你是终于回头看见了一直在那里的东西

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00:15:49,713 --> 00:15:52,067
你们觉得皈依对你来说意味着什么

456
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你是在某一刻突然决定走上这条路的

457
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还是回过头来才发现

458
00:15:57,192 --> 00:15:59,348
自己不知不觉已经在走了

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评论区留言聊聊

460
00:16:01,233 --> 00:16:03,008
我很好奇你们的经历

461
00:16:03,192 --> 00:16:03,868
我是王利杰

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我们下期见