1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,020 <镜花缘>藏着一张修行地图 2 00:00:03,020 --> 00:00:07,160 大多数人都没看见你有没有听说过这样一套逻辑 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:09,958 你只需要相信它会发生 4 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:11,880 全力去想象那个结果 5 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:13,801 宇宙就会把它送到你面前 6 00:00:14,359 --> 00:00:15,519 如果没发生 7 00:00:15,519 --> 00:00:17,399 那就是你信得不够深 8 00:00:17,399 --> 00:00:18,400 或者频率不对 9 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:19,759 这套东西 10 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,460 现在有很多名字 11 00:00:21,460 --> 00:00:22,640 叫显化学 12 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:24,260 叫吸引力法则 13 00:00:24,260 --> 00:00:25,841 也叫意念创造现实 14 00:00:26,339 --> 00:00:29,219 它在短视频平台上到处都是 15 00:00:29,219 --> 00:00:31,399 无数人对着镜子念咒语 16 00:00:31,399 --> 00:00:33,198 每天写感恩日记 17 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:35,240 墙上贴满愿望清单 18 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:38,200 拼命想象自己住进了梦想中的房子 19 00:00:38,359 --> 00:00:41,640 坐上了心仪的位置、拥有了想要的关系 20 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:43,600 然后就等着宇宙回应 21 00:00:43,659 --> 00:00:44,780 可等了很久 22 00:00:44,780 --> 00:00:45,701 什么都没发生 23 00:00:46,399 --> 00:00:46,920 这时候 24 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,539 人们通常会有两种反应:第一种 25 00:00:49,539 --> 00:00:51,198 觉得是自己信得不够 26 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:52,219 陷入自责 27 00:00:52,219 --> 00:00:54,060 然后加倍努力去"信" 28 00:00:54,060 --> 00:00:54,859 第二种 29 00:00:54,859 --> 00:00:57,060 觉得这套东西就是骗局 30 00:00:57,060 --> 00:00:58,079 彻底放弃 31 00:00:58,079 --> 00:01:00,840 甚至把所有关于意识和心态的讨论 32 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:01,760 都一并否定 33 00:01:02,380 --> 00:01:04,200 但今天我想告诉你 34 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:05,319 这两种反应 35 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:05,841 都错了 36 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:07,640 二百多年前 37 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:09,260 清代文人李汝珍 38 00:01:09,260 --> 00:01:11,359 早就把这道题的正确答案 39 00:01:11,359 --> 00:01:13,081 写进了<镜花缘>这本小说里 40 00:01:13,659 --> 00:01:16,939 他用一朵花打了个比方 - 那朵花 41 00:01:16,939 --> 00:01:18,379 因为开错了时候 42 00:01:18,379 --> 00:01:19,121 所以凋谢了 43 00:01:19,540 --> 00:01:20,239 答案 44 00:01:20,239 --> 00:01:21,481 就藏在这朵花里 45 00:01:21,540 --> 00:01:22,040 哈喽 46 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:22,560 大家好 47 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:23,381 我是王利杰 48 00:01:24,019 --> 00:01:25,140 今天这期视频 49 00:01:25,140 --> 00:01:27,099 是一个新系列的第一期 50 00:01:27,099 --> 00:01:30,400 这个系列叫"用佛学解构古典小说" 51 00:01:31,019 --> 00:01:32,200 我先花几分钟 52 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,420 跟大家说说这个系列要做什么 53 00:01:34,420 --> 00:01:36,320 以及我为什么觉得它值得做 54 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:39,359 我们频道之前用了很多期内容 55 00:01:39,420 --> 00:01:42,980 搭建了一套理解意识的框架 - 阿赖耶识 56 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:47,301 种子与现行、末那识的我执、遍计所执、预测编码 57 00:01:47,739 --> 00:01:48,700 这些概念 58 00:01:48,700 --> 00:01:50,740 很多老观众已经非常熟悉了 59 00:01:51,719 --> 00:01:54,840 但有一天我突然意识到:中国古典小说里 60 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:56,239 有一类作品 61 00:01:56,239 --> 00:02:00,480 表面看是神魔仙怪、才子佳人、海外奇游 62 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:04,060 可要是用我们已经建立的这套佛学框架去解读 63 00:02:04,060 --> 00:02:05,079 就会发现 64 00:02:05,079 --> 00:02:06,000 里面讲的 65 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,200 其实和我们一直在说的是一回事 66 00:02:08,819 --> 00:02:10,400 那些小说的作者 67 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:14,659 大多是饱读诗书、浸淫儒释道三家的文人 68 00:02:14,659 --> 00:02:19,319 他们把自己对意识、执着、因果、解脱的理解 69 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,241 悄悄藏进了故事的外壳里 70 00:02:21,819 --> 00:02:22,780 换句话说 71 00:02:22,780 --> 00:02:23,740 这些书 72 00:02:23,740 --> 00:02:26,781 本质上就是伪装成小说的修行地图 73 00:02:27,419 --> 00:02:28,580 这个系列要做的 74 00:02:28,580 --> 00:02:30,920 就是把这层好看的包装纸拆开 75 00:02:31,419 --> 00:02:32,759 它不是文学课 76 00:02:32,759 --> 00:02:33,819 不考证版本 77 00:02:33,819 --> 00:02:35,319 不讲作者生平 78 00:02:35,319 --> 00:02:37,000 也不做道德说教 79 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:38,939 就是用佛学的"显微镜" 80 00:02:38,939 --> 00:02:42,361 去看清古人对人类执着模式的精准解剖 81 00:02:42,819 --> 00:02:45,319 我想让大家看到:几百年前 82 00:02:45,319 --> 00:02:48,580 古人就已经看透了 - 现代人用显化学 83 00:02:48,759 --> 00:02:51,020 正念冥想、吸引力法则 84 00:02:51,020 --> 00:02:52,919 兜兜转转想要解决的 85 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:54,260 其实是同一批问题 86 00:02:55,020 --> 00:02:56,340 而且古人的答案 87 00:02:56,340 --> 00:02:58,340 往往比我们今天的版本 88 00:02:58,340 --> 00:03:00,120 更诚实、更完整 89 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:01,760 也更不回避真相的难度 90 00:03:02,500 --> 00:03:05,580 那为什么要用<镜花缘>来开这个头呢 91 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:06,461 有三个原因 92 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:08,060 第一个 93 00:03:08,060 --> 00:03:08,540 是缘分 94 00:03:09,180 --> 00:03:10,319 这个系列的诞生 95 00:03:10,319 --> 00:03:12,021 本身就和<镜花缘>有关 96 00:03:12,620 --> 00:03:15,680 之前我做过一期讲显化学的视频 97 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:17,780 评论区有位观众留言说 98 00:03:17,780 --> 00:03:19,780 他的座右铭是"尽人事 99 00:03:19,780 --> 00:03:20,919 听天命" 100 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:23,361 而这也是他理解的<镜花缘>的精髓 101 00:03:23,979 --> 00:03:25,199 就这一句话 102 00:03:25,199 --> 00:03:28,719 把一本清代小说和现代人最纠结的问题 103 00:03:28,719 --> 00:03:29,850 牢牢连在了一起 104 00:03:30,319 --> 00:03:31,840 也正是这条评论 105 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:34,240 让我开始思考:古典小说里 106 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,639 到底还藏着多少这样的智慧 107 00:03:36,699 --> 00:03:37,560 第二个 108 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:38,681 是这本书的名字 109 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,159 <镜花缘>这三个字 110 00:03:41,159 --> 00:03:42,561 本身就是佛家语 111 00:03:43,199 --> 00:03:45,099 镜中花、水中月 112 00:03:45,099 --> 00:03:48,521 是佛学里对一切执着对象最经典的比喻 113 00:03:49,039 --> 00:03:50,360 一本书的书名 114 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:53,219 就相当于一篇佛学论文的标题 115 00:03:53,219 --> 00:03:55,520 它天然就是这个系列最好的入口 116 00:03:56,060 --> 00:04:00,439 我不用费力去解释"为什么古典小说和佛学有关" 117 00:04:00,439 --> 00:04:02,040 书名自己就说明了一切 118 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:03,359 第三个 119 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,060 是这本书解剖的那种执着 120 00:04:06,060 --> 00:04:09,580 恰好是今天最流行的那种 - 你想要一样东西 121 00:04:09,580 --> 00:04:13,699 拼尽全力去想象它、呼唤它、"显化"它 122 00:04:13,699 --> 00:04:16,320 却忽略了一个关键变量:时令 123 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:18,720 因缘没有聚合的时候 124 00:04:18,939 --> 00:04:19,759 你越用力 125 00:04:19,759 --> 00:04:21,040 反而越适得其反 126 00:04:21,540 --> 00:04:24,360 这正是显化学最大的盲区 127 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,220 而李汝珍在两百年前 128 00:04:26,220 --> 00:04:28,340 就把这个盲区写得明明白白 129 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:29,339 好 130 00:04:29,339 --> 00:04:30,959 接下来我用三分钟 131 00:04:30,959 --> 00:04:33,220 把这本书的故事线讲清楚 132 00:04:33,220 --> 00:04:35,839 因为后面我要引用里面的人和事 133 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,360 大家得先知道他们是谁 134 00:04:37,959 --> 00:04:39,819 武则天登基那年冬天 135 00:04:39,819 --> 00:04:41,240 她喝多了酒 136 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,019 醉后下了一道诏书 137 00:04:43,019 --> 00:04:45,180 命令第二天所有的花 138 00:04:45,180 --> 00:04:45,820 全都盛开 139 00:04:46,500 --> 00:04:49,779 百花仙子是掌管花期时序的天官 140 00:04:49,779 --> 00:04:52,100 本来应该守住自然规律 141 00:04:52,100 --> 00:04:54,639 但那一夜她恰好缺席了 142 00:04:54,639 --> 00:04:56,439 众花神群龙无首 143 00:04:56,439 --> 00:04:57,820 只好遵旨行事 144 00:04:58,500 --> 00:04:59,420 花是开了 145 00:04:59,420 --> 00:05:00,860 可时令乱了 146 00:05:00,860 --> 00:05:02,040 天规也破了 147 00:05:02,199 --> 00:05:02,779 最终 148 00:05:02,779 --> 00:05:04,699 百花仙子因为失职 149 00:05:04,699 --> 00:05:06,279 被贬谪下界 150 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,540 投胎成了书生唐敖的女儿 151 00:05:08,540 --> 00:05:09,780 取名唐小山 152 00:05:10,519 --> 00:05:14,300 唐敖是个考了很多年都没考上的落第书生 153 00:05:14,300 --> 00:05:16,158 后来因为一些机缘 154 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,870 跟着商人多九公出海经商 155 00:05:18,870 --> 00:05:21,040 还带着女儿唐小山一起 156 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,240 游历了海外各国 157 00:05:22,779 --> 00:05:24,480 他们走过的这些国家 158 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:26,629 每一个都奇异得不像真实存在 159 00:05:27,180 --> 00:05:30,740 有所有人都谦让、争着吃亏的君子国 160 00:05:30,740 --> 00:05:35,120 有脑袋后面长着另一张脸、随时能切换的两面国 161 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:37,520 还有把黑牙当作美的黑齿国 162 00:05:38,339 --> 00:05:40,459 唐敖在游历的过程中 163 00:05:40,459 --> 00:05:42,120 修行也越来越深 164 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:44,959 最后在一座仙山得道成仙 165 00:05:44,959 --> 00:05:46,060 留在了山上 166 00:05:46,060 --> 00:05:46,740 没有再回来 167 00:05:47,399 --> 00:05:50,019 唐小山跟着商队回到中原 168 00:05:50,019 --> 00:05:51,140 慢慢长大成才 169 00:05:51,779 --> 00:05:54,500 正好赶上武则天开科取士 170 00:05:54,500 --> 00:05:56,420 专门招募女性才子 171 00:05:56,420 --> 00:05:58,040 唐小山一举高中 172 00:05:58,040 --> 00:05:59,220 名列前茅 173 00:05:59,220 --> 00:06:01,100 和一百位才女一起被录取 174 00:06:01,639 --> 00:06:03,819 但她心里一直放不下父亲 175 00:06:03,819 --> 00:06:05,420 后来就再次出海寻父 176 00:06:05,959 --> 00:06:06,459 最终 177 00:06:06,459 --> 00:06:08,319 她找到了那座仙山 178 00:06:08,319 --> 00:06:10,500 见到了已经成仙的父亲 179 00:06:10,500 --> 00:06:12,140 这段旅程也就此结束 180 00:06:12,639 --> 00:06:13,520 故事就是这样 181 00:06:14,060 --> 00:06:14,519 现在 182 00:06:14,519 --> 00:06:15,780 我们来拆解它的核心 183 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:17,520 先从书名入手 184 00:06:18,180 --> 00:06:19,978 镜中花、水中月 185 00:06:19,980 --> 00:06:22,598 这个意象不是说"那个东西不存在" 186 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:25,139 而是说 - 你以为的存在方式 187 00:06:25,139 --> 00:06:27,000 和它实际的存在方式 188 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:28,180 之间有一道裂缝 189 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:29,839 花在镜子里 190 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:30,680 你看得见 191 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,180 感觉很真实 192 00:06:32,180 --> 00:06:33,579 但你伸出手去摸 193 00:06:33,579 --> 00:06:34,440 它却不在那里 194 00:06:34,959 --> 00:06:36,139 它不是虚无 195 00:06:36,139 --> 00:06:38,699 它是"缘起" - 它依赖于镜子 196 00:06:38,879 --> 00:06:41,459 光线、你的眼睛、你的意识 197 00:06:41,459 --> 00:06:43,259 这些条件聚合在一起 198 00:06:43,259 --> 00:06:44,819 它才会显现 199 00:06:44,819 --> 00:06:45,720 条件散了 200 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:46,500 它就消失了 201 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,180 它没有一个独立的、永恒的 202 00:06:49,319 --> 00:06:50,879 不依赖任何条件的"自性" 203 00:06:51,540 --> 00:06:53,500 这就是佛学里"空"的意思 204 00:06:54,199 --> 00:06:55,360 空不是没有 205 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:56,200 是空无自性 206 00:06:57,120 --> 00:06:59,639 用我们频道之前讲过的话来说 207 00:06:59,639 --> 00:07:01,000 你感知到的一切 208 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,579 都是你意识内部的渲染结果 209 00:07:03,579 --> 00:07:06,420 是大脑自上而下编造的受控幻觉 210 00:07:07,079 --> 00:07:08,158 而镜花水月 211 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:10,560 就是这句话最经典的古典表达 212 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:11,540 现在 213 00:07:11,540 --> 00:07:14,221 我们回到武则天那道醉后的乱命 214 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,639 她命令百花在冬天盛开 215 00:07:17,639 --> 00:07:19,079 可花期是什么 216 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:21,579 花期是因缘聚合的时令 217 00:07:21,579 --> 00:07:23,661 是种子"现行"的条件窗口 218 00:07:24,259 --> 00:07:26,819 每一朵花都有自己的种子 219 00:07:26,819 --> 00:07:29,480 但种子什么时候发芽、开花 220 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:31,660 不取决于谁下命令 221 00:07:31,660 --> 00:07:34,019 取决于温度、湿度、光照 222 00:07:34,180 --> 00:07:36,780 土壤 - 取决于因缘是否具足 223 00:07:37,339 --> 00:07:38,639 武则天做了什么 224 00:07:38,699 --> 00:07:40,540 她试图用权力意志 225 00:07:40,540 --> 00:07:42,519 强行绕过因缘条件 226 00:07:42,519 --> 00:07:44,800 让种子在错误的时令里开花 227 00:07:45,279 --> 00:07:47,480 这和显化学的极端形态 228 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:49,060 是不是完全一样 229 00:07:49,139 --> 00:07:53,019 你每天对着镜子说"我值得拥有财富自由" 230 00:07:53,019 --> 00:07:54,180 你做的这件事 231 00:07:54,180 --> 00:07:56,000 和武则天的那道圣旨 232 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:59,639 在本质上没有区别 - 你在用意念的力量 233 00:07:59,639 --> 00:08:02,120 命令自己阿赖耶识里的种子 234 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:03,580 在你规定的时间里开花 235 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:05,519 但种子的运作 236 00:08:05,519 --> 00:08:06,440 从来不听命令 237 00:08:07,139 --> 00:08:10,399 种子有它自己的因果链:你的种子库里 238 00:08:10,399 --> 00:08:12,579 有没有支撑这个结果的种子 239 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:13,660 如果有 240 00:08:13,660 --> 00:08:15,720 因缘又是否真的具足 241 00:08:15,879 --> 00:08:16,980 因缘具足 242 00:08:16,980 --> 00:08:18,360 不是你想它具足 243 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:19,439 它就具足 244 00:08:19,439 --> 00:08:22,100 而是外在的条件和内在的积累 245 00:08:22,100 --> 00:08:23,140 是否真正到位 246 00:08:23,740 --> 00:08:27,589 这就是李汝珍藏在武则天这个角色里的第一层隐喻 247 00:08:27,589 --> 00:08:31,180 强行让花在错误时令开放的人 248 00:08:31,180 --> 00:08:33,000 和那朵被迫开放的花 249 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:34,539 最终都会付出代价 250 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:37,019 百花仙子被贬下凡 251 00:08:37,019 --> 00:08:38,860 不是因为她做错了什么 252 00:08:38,860 --> 00:08:42,240 而是因为整个系统的时令被人为扰乱 253 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:43,418 所有参与者 254 00:08:43,418 --> 00:08:44,680 都要承受这个后果 255 00:08:45,179 --> 00:08:46,520 再来看那些海外诸国 256 00:08:47,259 --> 00:08:49,440 君子国的人争着吃亏 257 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,059 两面国的人前后两张脸 258 00:08:52,059 --> 00:08:53,841 黑齿国的人把黑牙当美 259 00:08:54,500 --> 00:08:56,419 你初看会觉得荒诞 260 00:08:56,419 --> 00:08:58,539 再看一遍就会发现:这些 261 00:08:58,539 --> 00:09:01,259 "奇异国度"里的每一种行为模式 262 00:09:01,259 --> 00:09:02,720 在我们的现实世界里 263 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:03,760 都能找到对应 264 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:06,460 争着吃亏是一种执 265 00:09:06,460 --> 00:09:08,500 两面三刀是一种执 266 00:09:08,500 --> 00:09:11,539 把某种审美标准当作绝对真理 267 00:09:11,539 --> 00:09:12,360 也是一种执 268 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:15,960 李汝珍用夸张到极致的手法 269 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:18,259 先让你觉得"这些人好奇怪" 270 00:09:18,259 --> 00:09:20,679 然后让你突然意识到:你自己 271 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:23,639 其实也生活在自己的"奇异国度"里 272 00:09:23,639 --> 00:09:25,659 你那些深信不疑的执念 273 00:09:25,659 --> 00:09:26,578 在别人眼里 274 00:09:26,580 --> 00:09:28,160 可能也同样不可思议 275 00:09:28,799 --> 00:09:31,360 这就是佛学里"观"的功夫 276 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:32,500 在小说里的体现 277 00:09:32,940 --> 00:09:33,399 止 278 00:09:33,399 --> 00:09:36,419 是让大脑的叙事机器安静下来 279 00:09:36,419 --> 00:09:36,698 观 280 00:09:36,700 --> 00:09:38,039 是在安静之后 281 00:09:38,039 --> 00:09:40,100 如实地看见事物本来的样子 282 00:09:40,620 --> 00:09:43,480 李汝珍让你去"观"别人的执念 283 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:44,100 目的 284 00:09:44,100 --> 00:09:46,020 是让你回头"观"自己的执念 285 00:09:46,399 --> 00:09:46,820 最后 286 00:09:46,820 --> 00:09:49,818 我们来看唐小山的生命弧线 287 00:09:49,820 --> 00:09:51,600 这是整本书最深的一层 288 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:54,620 百花仙子因为执念 289 00:09:54,620 --> 00:09:55,919 堕入红尘 290 00:09:55,919 --> 00:09:57,060 投胎成了唐小山 291 00:09:57,759 --> 00:10:00,279 她经历了出海游历、积累才华 292 00:10:00,500 --> 00:10:03,479 寻父之旅的完整过程 - 该做的事 293 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:05,860 她全都做了:学问做到了 294 00:10:05,860 --> 00:10:06,960 功名考到了 295 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:07,769 大海渡了 296 00:10:07,769 --> 00:10:08,670 父亲也找到了 297 00:10:09,299 --> 00:10:12,480 但她没有在重逢的时刻执着停留 298 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:14,019 走完了自己的旅程 299 00:10:14,019 --> 00:10:15,060 然后坦然放下 300 00:10:15,700 --> 00:10:17,340 用唯识学的话来说 301 00:10:17,340 --> 00:10:19,440 就是:种子该现行的 302 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:20,639 都现行了 303 00:10:20,639 --> 00:10:23,019 没有新的我执继续熏入 304 00:10:23,019 --> 00:10:23,779 这段旅程 305 00:10:23,779 --> 00:10:24,680 自然就圆满了 306 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:27,899 这才是百花仙子这个身份真正的意义 307 00:10:28,399 --> 00:10:31,379 她本来就是掌管花期时序的仙子 308 00:10:31,379 --> 00:10:32,720 她最深的功课 309 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:37,078 就是学会让花在因缘具足的时令里自然开放 310 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,441 而不是在错误的时令里强行绽放 311 00:10:39,940 --> 00:10:40,799 她入世 312 00:10:40,799 --> 00:10:43,259 是因为一次违背时令的开放 313 00:10:43,259 --> 00:10:44,340 她出世 314 00:10:44,340 --> 00:10:46,379 是因为她终于真正懂得了 315 00:10:46,379 --> 00:10:47,140 什么是时令 316 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:49,139 把这两层合在一起 317 00:10:49,139 --> 00:10:52,578 就是那位观众留言的六个字:尽人事 318 00:10:52,580 --> 00:10:53,020 听天命 319 00:10:53,700 --> 00:10:54,500 尽人事 320 00:10:54,500 --> 00:10:57,139 就是耕耘种子、积累资粮 321 00:10:57,139 --> 00:10:59,059 这是"因"的功夫 322 00:10:59,059 --> 00:11:01,779 是你能掌控、能去做的部分 323 00:11:01,779 --> 00:11:02,519 听天命 324 00:11:02,519 --> 00:11:04,759 就是放下对结果的执念 325 00:11:04,759 --> 00:11:06,820 放下对时令的控制欲 326 00:11:06,820 --> 00:11:09,399 让因缘自然聚合、自然展开 327 00:11:09,399 --> 00:11:11,179 这是"心"的功夫 328 00:11:11,179 --> 00:11:12,520 是你需要放手的部分 329 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:14,000 这两件事 330 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:15,500 不是先后顺序 331 00:11:15,500 --> 00:11:18,000 不是先做完一件再做另一件 332 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:19,201 而是同时发生的 333 00:11:19,779 --> 00:11:21,240 你一边认真种地 334 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,500 一边放下对收割的执念 335 00:11:23,500 --> 00:11:25,000 一边顺应时令 336 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:26,480 一边等待因缘聚合 337 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:28,419 大家要记住 338 00:11:28,419 --> 00:11:29,480 在乎和执着 339 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:31,180 是两件完全不同的事 340 00:11:31,740 --> 00:11:34,318 你可以深深地在乎自己做的事 341 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:36,379 认真对待每一粒种子 342 00:11:36,379 --> 00:11:37,360 但同时 343 00:11:37,379 --> 00:11:39,919 不要求宇宙按照你规定的方式 344 00:11:40,100 --> 00:11:41,780 在你规定的时间回应你 345 00:11:42,399 --> 00:11:44,200 这两件事并不矛盾 346 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:45,539 可在做到之前 347 00:11:45,539 --> 00:11:49,399 很多人都会以为它们是矛盾的 - 要么全力以赴 348 00:11:49,399 --> 00:11:50,679 要么放手随缘 349 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:51,300 不能兼顾 350 00:11:51,980 --> 00:11:53,759 而<镜花缘>告诉我们 351 00:11:53,759 --> 00:11:55,460 这不仅可以同时做到 352 00:11:55,460 --> 00:11:56,841 而且必须同时做到 353 00:11:57,259 --> 00:11:57,759 现在 354 00:11:57,759 --> 00:11:59,220 我们回头想想 355 00:11:59,220 --> 00:12:03,440 那些每天对着镜子念咒语、墙上贴满愿望清单 356 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:04,940 却毫无进展的人 357 00:12:04,940 --> 00:12:06,840 问题到底出在哪里 358 00:12:06,940 --> 00:12:09,480 外在的问题有两层:第一 359 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,200 你的种子库足够吗 360 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:12,080 这些年 361 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:13,698 你一直在认真种地 362 00:12:13,700 --> 00:12:15,419 还是只在等着收割 363 00:12:15,500 --> 00:12:16,259 第二 364 00:12:16,259 --> 00:12:17,879 就算种子到位了 365 00:12:17,879 --> 00:12:20,279 天时地利是否已经聚合 366 00:12:20,399 --> 00:12:21,779 你是在顺应时令 367 00:12:21,779 --> 00:12:24,460 还是在冬天里催着春花开放 368 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:27,600 内在的问题是:你对那个结果的执着 369 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:29,679 是不是让你把所有注意力 370 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:32,700 都从"种地"转移到了"盯着地里看" 371 00:12:32,759 --> 00:12:34,480 你对时令的控制欲 372 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:37,379 是不是把本来可以安静生长的东西 373 00:12:37,379 --> 00:12:38,580 催得透支了 374 00:12:38,659 --> 00:12:40,100 第一个问题的答案 375 00:12:40,100 --> 00:12:41,179 是尽人事 376 00:12:41,179 --> 00:12:42,460 第二个问题的答案 377 00:12:42,460 --> 00:12:43,201 是听天命 378 00:12:43,879 --> 00:12:45,100 二百多年前 379 00:12:45,100 --> 00:12:46,539 李汝珍把这个答案 380 00:12:46,539 --> 00:12:49,200 写进了一朵花开花谢的神话里 381 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:52,460 写进了一段海外游历的奇幻旅程里 382 00:12:52,460 --> 00:12:55,400 写进了一个才女寻父的生命弧线里 383 00:12:55,759 --> 00:12:58,559 他没有给我们一句简单的励志口号 384 00:12:58,559 --> 00:12:59,740 而是让我们看到 385 00:12:59,740 --> 00:13:03,539 强行令花开放的人和那朵被迫开放的花 386 00:13:03,539 --> 00:13:05,360 最终都会付出代价 387 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,919 而那些既认真种下种子 388 00:13:07,919 --> 00:13:08,960 又识得时令 389 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:10,600 还能放下执念 390 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:13,720 让花在该开的因缘里自然绽放的人 391 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:15,500 才能真正走完自己的旅程 392 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:17,600 这才是真正的正能量 393 00:13:18,039 --> 00:13:20,559 它不是告诉你"相信就能得到" 394 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:21,600 而是告诉你 395 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:22,840 因与果之间 396 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:23,640 有一段旅程 397 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:25,000 这段旅程 398 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:26,750 需要你既认真走 399 00:13:26,750 --> 00:13:29,200 又轻松走 - 认真种地 400 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:30,259 识得时令 401 00:13:30,259 --> 00:13:30,941 轻松等待 402 00:13:31,289 --> 00:13:34,600 <镜花缘>被包装成了古代女权小说 403 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:36,639 被包装成了海外奇谈 404 00:13:36,860 --> 00:13:38,540 被包装成了神怪传奇 405 00:13:39,299 --> 00:13:40,740 但剥开这些包装 406 00:13:40,740 --> 00:13:43,299 里面是一张完整的修行地图 407 00:13:43,299 --> 00:13:45,460 作者把答案藏在了书名里 408 00:13:45,460 --> 00:13:46,920 等着我们自己去拆开 409 00:13:47,539 --> 00:13:49,280 这就是这个系列要做的事 410 00:13:49,740 --> 00:13:50,080 后面 411 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:53,220 我们还会拆解<红楼梦>里的色空不二 412 00:13:53,220 --> 00:13:55,860 拆解<西游记>里的降伏心猿 413 00:13:55,860 --> 00:13:59,560 拆解<聊斋志异>里那些鬼狐背后的人间执念 414 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:01,019 每一本书 415 00:14:01,019 --> 00:14:03,460 都是古人留下的一面镜子 416 00:14:03,460 --> 00:14:04,720 照的不是别人 417 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:05,560 正是我们自己 418 00:14:06,100 --> 00:14:07,360 对于这一期的内容 419 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:09,179 你有什么想法和见解 420 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:10,620 对于后面的系列 421 00:14:10,620 --> 00:14:12,440 你最想听我拆哪一本 422 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:14,020 欢迎在评论区告诉我 423 00:14:14,419 --> 00:14:15,500 我是王利杰 424 00:14:15,500 --> 00:14:16,559 我们下期见